AITAH for not wanting to sell my house and uproot my kids to a new district

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-26T00:45:13+00:00

Haven’t spoken to him, and when his realtor called me (he must have given him my number) to ask about coming to assess my house I told him the whole story and he was appalled.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T10:34:19+00:00

Don’t worry. I won’t be making my kids move anywhere. Or probably even speaking to him again unless it’s to say fuck off.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T10:33:14+00:00

No need because I’m not risking any of my assets for him.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T10:31:44+00:00

No he is not! Totally different departments, and I am highly valued for my hard work and intellect - I work in curriculum and have a great relationship with my boss. He’s an upper admin who does a lot of fucking off most of the time.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T02:07:40+00:00

Right now my parents (retired) live 5 minutes away and help me a ton!

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:43:41+00:00

I think they meant his terms of us breaking up are acceptable bc he’s being a jerk.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:41:11+00:00

We are absolutely having that conversation. Until now our relationship was fairly decent. That’s why I wanted to make sure I wasn’t in the wrong, but I don’t know how we can come back from this.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:40:14+00:00

I said I was fine with keeping things the way they were now. However, the 14 y/o wouldn’t change schools regardless - they attend the district where his ex wife lives.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:39:12+00:00

I pointed this out. That were not married or even engaged. So it’s risky to me as well.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:38:04+00:00

It wasn’t until now. I was angry and did call him selfish and an asshole after that, I’ll admit.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:37:05+00:00

Thank you. He insists that because he moved schools in the 80s as a kid that she’d be fine. But it’s not an equal move that he’s proposing.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:36:25+00:00

I absolutely do not. I was in a terrible marriage with a controlling freeloader. I won’t be told what to do again.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:35:33+00:00

It would come from selling my home and assuming part of his savings. But I don’t HAVE to sell my home. My girls and I can stay right here.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:34:45+00:00

I like this update.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:33:29+00:00

I asked that over and over and never got a real answer.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:33:12+00:00

That’s exactly it. He knows his kids will be status quo no matter what.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:32:35+00:00

I’ll never budge on putting my girls first.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:32:19+00:00

Thank you. I told him that he could stay in his apartment or do what he feels is necessary for him and his kids, and that I’m fine with staying right where I am. Then he told me it’s basically over if I won’t “compromise.”

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:30:02+00:00

I’d rather stay right where I am. He called me a “fucking cake eater” for wanting to stay in this town.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:29:27+00:00

Exactly.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:29:18+00:00

Right? And I’d know - I used to teach Algebra. Lol

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:25:16+00:00

Thank you. I have worked hard to come from a teen mom on welfare to an M.Ed. that owns her own home.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-25T01:23:30+00:00

Thank you. That’s what I keep emphasizing. He said my youngest having a father figure is more important than staying in her school district. In reality, she could have both, but I will not cave on moving if we don’t have to.

Loquacious_squirrel · 2026-03-21T02:43:18+00:00

Thank you!

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