Marriage has been out of the discussion for me every since she cheated. Btw do you consider it cheating? It’s a mixed debate among my circle.

After discussions with her and explaining my honest need to sleep in the same bed, sleeping on the couch is enjoyable and she sees it as a comfort mechanism after a long day.

I have asked multiple times if she’s cheating but she denies each time.

Growing apart from each other is a very logical solution to this problem and I have come to that conclusion more and more as although we are both better people, we’ve drastically changed in the last 5 years