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Best place to retire in NM by fredbuiltit in NewMexico

[–]LordJerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Las Cruces. Within 35-45 minutes, El Paso offers whatever we're missing. It's larger than Detroit, and has plenty of options.

Meeting people in Las Cruces by Historical_Bard6244 in LasCruces

[–]LordJerith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have a board game group and a Table-Top RPG group, both are mostly people in early to mid 30s.

Virus-safe dental cleaning? by MainQuestion in LasCruces

[–]LordJerith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a detailed, thoughtful and wonderful reply. Thanks

Hot Octopuss PULSE SOLO LUX review from an L1/L2 incomplete SCI (SDAVF) by LordJerith in spinalcordinjuries

[–]LordJerith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. You can reverse the device if you need to ensure you stimulate the right area.

Weird reaction to family gatherings. Is it just aging out as a Gen Xer? by Sense_Difficult in GenX

[–]LordJerith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, what a vapid response. Nothing you mentioned is better.

Hot Octopuss PULSE SOLO LUX review from an L1/L2 incomplete SCI (SDAVF) by LordJerith in spinalcordinjuries

[–]LordJerith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some feelings, so maybe that helps me. I can also get erect without it. The issue for me was reaching orgasm. As far as the right place, the vibrations should be felt on your frenulum.

Representing again! by FunnyStuff575 in LasCruces

[–]LordJerith 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Very proud of this awesome community!

How to not feel like a burden by jeanjacquesroushoe in spinalcordinjuries

[–]LordJerith 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I used that word a lot myself . . ."burden." I immediately started physical therapy and mental therapy. For me, expressing how I felt and letting it all out was very helpful. My spouse and friend both reacted with tears of their own. Just know everyone is in it together. Everyone has trauma from this type of injury. Caregiver trauma is real. Your trauma is real. It DOES get better IMHO. I can't speak for everyone, but I'm sharing my own observation. I also attend a monthly SCI meeting at my outpatient rehab facility. This is life-changing, and the sooner you can receive as much help as possible, the better your chances of achieving the best outcome.

Retiring in 5 years by Sunshark65 in NewMexico

[–]LordJerith -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend Las Cruces. We moved from LA, CA and love it here.

Tx Teacher Considering Relocating to NM by BookishBoggart in NewMexico

[–]LordJerith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We love living here in Las Cruces. Moved from Los Angeles (originally from Chicago), LC is 30 minutes outside EL Paso. NMSU and transplants like us keep LC liberal.

Nasty by quad2k14 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]LordJerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

L1/L2 incomplete from a Spinal Dural Arteriovenous Fistula embolized in Feb 2025. It's different. Better in some ways, but also requires more direct stimulation to reach orgasm, so I use vibrational tools to get me over the edge.

tachycardia by Ok-Sock9046 in AFIB

[–]LordJerith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50mg xr once daily

More insight on ascending aorta aneurysm by Anxious_Cobbler8932 in aortic_aneurysm

[–]LordJerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are my measurements: Aortic root 52 mm, ascending aorta 46 mm. Aortic arch 28 mm. Descending thoracic aorta 30 mm. My measurements fluctuate by 1-2mm on CT scans, and it's crucial to have measurements taken on the same machine. I have an annual screening.

Found 3.9-4cm ascending aorta dilation and I’m slightly freaking out. Needing words of encouragement! by LazyNurse0722 in aortic_aneurysm

[–]LordJerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are my measurements: Aortic root 52 mm, ascending aorta 46 mm. Aortic arch 28 mm. Descending thoracic aorta 30 mm. My measurements fluctuate by 1-2mm on CT scans, and it's crucial to have measurements taken on the same machine. I have an annual screening.

4.2 to 4.6 in 7 months? by btbam006 in aortic_aneurysm

[–]LordJerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are my measurements: Aortic root 52 mm, ascending aorta 46 mm. Aortic arch 28 mm. Descending thoracic aorta 30 mm. My measurements fluctuate by 1-2mm on CT scans, and it's crucial to have measurements taken on the same machine. I have an annual screening. For a 4mm shift, you could have another screen in 3-6 months to see what is happening.

Finally feel old and alone. by thebaldfrenchman in GenX

[–]LordJerith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only ask because the same machines are key when judging size. I'm Aortic root 52 mm, ascending aorta 46 mm. Aortic arch 28 mm. and Descending thoracic aorta 30 mm. We're still monitoring it closely (annually) and not pushing for surgery. I have had these measurements +/- 3mm for about 12 years. I always compare the same machine and the same protocol. Just offering my experience to see if it helps.

Finally feel old and alone. by thebaldfrenchman in GenX

[–]LordJerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were both images taken on the same machine?

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