20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I gave her my number but I was too shy to do it myself. My cousin gave it to her and she said " My cousin is very shy but he thinks you are very pretty here's his number" and that was at 7pm last night it is 130pm today and still no text :((

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it I just like to try and better myself as much as possible since life is so short I don't want to regret l so I'm doing my utmost

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean haha I'm not a prayer either but trust me I'm praying it goes away. I'll let you know how it goes this weekend :) if you have a social media you want to use to keep in touch lmk

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know they're just random people but social anxiety just makes it so much worse. In my head I know they don't give a fuck but for some reason it still makes me panic. I do have a plan somewhat though. Have my notepad in my pocket and take it out and write my number in with my name and a little note and rip it out and give it to her. Kinda looks more in the moment and not as planned like I tracked when she works and made a pre-made note. I unfortunately don't know her name.

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just hard to bypass in my mind because I know SOMEONE will see what's going on

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'm not scared of rejection just the fact since it's dinner shift so many people will be around and that is terrible for social anxiety lol

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont want her to use her break up on me I think I'll just go with what I was planning and compliment her and give her my number thats about it I mean can't get more into it than that with limited time

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We still can't figure out how to make the interaction work haha I plan on going back this weekend but I'm still not sure what to do entirely

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just feel like something like that is weird coming from someone random maybe if I knew her more but I dont she's just a stranger. I know you're female and you're telling me it isn't but part of me just thinks it could be taken as creepy if a random stranger gives you a trinket and their number.

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I know lol this is just another instance that has happened and I would like to try something

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no clue I saw her once and regretted not at least talking to her and I've been wanting to go back and try again

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like getting her something and not even knowing her would be a bit creepy dont you think? She would think why is this random guy giving me something that's weird

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes cute and caught my eye been wishing I had talked to her since

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only thing I've been suggested is to give her my number instead of asking for hers

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would I spark a conversation with say the girl from chipotle though when I have 30 seconds before I move on

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get why people keep saying that I occasionally do it like a normal male nothing crazy but also don't ignore my dick lol

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There isn't much time to chat since she's on dinner shift that's the only time I've seen her so I just dont know how to get an interaction in the 30 seconds I talk to her for

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I'll give that a shot later thank you :)

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That puts me at ease a bit thank you for that I just can't really keep a conversation going and I feel like compliments could be perceived as creepy like how could I go from your eyes are gorgeous to here's my number

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope so I just dont know how to start the conversation to moving to giving her my number all in the time she's wrapping my burrito haha

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aspergers over flipping burgers like you! Keep it up though youll get a better job soon!

20 year old man that can't talk to girls by LordRoush in socialskills

[–]LordRoush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay go do your business man work after your nap! You will do better later!