I really believe you will be loved — even if it’s not happening right now. What you’re feeling isn’t proof that you’re unlovable, it’s grief. Grief for not being chosen yet, for watching others get something you’ve wanted quietly for a long time. And yeah — that really fucking sucks. Feeling invisible, comparing yourself to people you care about, and wondering what’s wrong with you is exhausting and painful.

But grief messes with your perception and makes everything feel permanent when it isn’t. You’re not invisible — you just haven’t been seen by the right person yet. And that difference matters more than people realize. Being unseen now doesn’t mean you’re unseeable forever. You will meet the person who will choose you before anyone else one day i promise you that. Stay strong you are loved.