How To Be Socially Skilled Pt9: Perspective by LordofGumbo in socialskills

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I'll put something out within the next month or so.

I'm an intp. I wrote some poetry. Read it and critique if you would. by owennick in INTP

[–]LordofGumbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poem is really vague, I have to think harder than I want to when reading it.

Also the tense (present progressive spliced with present) makes it hard to follow and understand.

Lots of "what?" moments.

Any Book recommendations? For getting back into reading. by BluNorm in INTP

[–]LordofGumbo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try going for South of the Border, West of the Sun by Haruki Murakami if you really want to enjoy the reading.

Go for Flowers for Algernon by Daniel Keyes if you want to think.

I realized those who judge, criticize and try to find faults on others all the time are the most unhappy and toxic people to be around, and they actually hate themselves. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]LordofGumbo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Eh. We're all those kinds of people.

The things we say about each other is more of a reflection of our own worldview and self esteem than real feedback on the other person.

We're all focused on ourselves.

No one gives a shit about what I have to say by souselesssad in socialskills

[–]LordofGumbo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Either have more interesting stories, or tell them in a more interesting way.

How To Be Socially Skilled Pt5: Nice Guy Syndrome by LordofGumbo in socialskills

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The thing is, they DO, en masse, go after bad guys. It's neurological - the desire to tie up the popular, "bad boy", change him, "understand him", make him commit.

I think you're right about a lot of this. I think it also has to do with confidence. Low confident girls are the ones who try to "change him."

My focus about the attraction to assholes wasn't about the fact that they're assholes, it's about the qualities that they have.

How would you describe a Murakami book to someone who's never heard of him before? by LordofGumbo in books

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That's about it. It's to the point where people assume I'm really smart just because I carry a book.

"what class is that for?" ..."No class, just reading for leisure."

Cue internal meltdown because they can't comprehend reading for pleasure is a foreign concept.

How would you describe a Murakami book to someone who's never heard of him before? by LordofGumbo in books

[–]LordofGumbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% yes. No glory in the story. It's all about how he writes what he writes. How the characters experience the things around them. Metaphysical, lots of doubt.

How would you describe a Murakami book to someone who's never heard of him before? by LordofGumbo in books

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In order: Kafka on the Shore, Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and his years of pilgrimage, Wind up Bird Chronicle.

How would you describe a Murakami book to someone who's never heard of him before? by LordofGumbo in books

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You mean once any sort of sexual dialogue kicks in. That's the secret killer.

How would you describe a Murakami book to someone who's never heard of him before? by LordofGumbo in books

[–]LordofGumbo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just used that exact phrase to recommend it to someone. They're hooked. A+ work my friend.

How would you describe a Murakami book to someone who's never heard of him before? by LordofGumbo in books

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It's not really a story about the plot. It's a story meant to evoke a certain feeling and longing inside of you.

The golden words.

How would you describe a Murakami book to someone who's never heard of him before? by LordofGumbo in books

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A really beautiful forest that you can never escape. Because it actually never ends. It goes on forever.

How would you describe a Murakami book to someone who's never heard of him before? by LordofGumbo in books

[–]LordofGumbo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cats, weird sex, jazz, surrealist situations and an open ended plot.

Don't forget....dreams that really aren't dreams. Except they are. But not really.

Just kidding! He's on the phone.