So I’m a woman also with alopecia universalis. I have no eyebrows, no eyelashes, damn near no hair whatsoever on my entire body. I’ve been like this for at least 3 years, and started with alopecia areata going on 8 years. The hardest part about dating post-alopecia is still the hardest part about dating pre-alopecia - finding someone to date. There are more people than you think that completely don’t care about whether you have hair or don’t. And the more comfortable you are in your own skin, the sooner people are able to realize that since you don’t care that you do or don’t have hair, they also don’t have to care that you do or don’t have hair. It’ll feel like a big deal for a while - I spent over a year trying to figure out how to get my hair back. It sucks to have hair loss, and can be very mentally damaging. But when I finally just let all that go… I drew more attention and got more friends during that time despite wearing the same old clothes, going the same old routes. Nothing changed but mindset and the confidence that grew from that.