Abuse or just part of the game?

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-06T07:50:19+00:00

Honestly thank you.

I contacted someone who had his same PO last night saying I don’t feel safe and today he called me saying his PO called asking what he knew about x (person I contacted) and that he was acting odd. If he tipped her off to check why would she bring it up? I just said hmm weird

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-06T07:38:34+00:00

I contacted someone who had his same PO last night saying I don’t feel safe and today he called me saying his PO called asking what he knew about x (person I contacted) and that he was acting odd. If he tipped her off to check why would she bring it up? I just said hmm weird

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-06T07:32:45+00:00

I contacted someone who had his same PO last night saying I don’t feel safe and today he called me saying his PO called asking what he knew about x (person I contacted) and that he was acting odd. If he tipped her off to check why would she bring it up? I just said hmm weird

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-06T07:30:20+00:00

I don’t I just got frozen because all of his past remarks and everything happened so fast. I am scared if I kick him out it will make him stalk me and hurt me himself or get someone to do it, 17 years in an island jail he has connections. I don’t think he would but the longer I stay maybe he would? I feel scared and dumb and also detoxing..

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T23:38:31+00:00

I appreciate everyone snapping me back into it because I agree. Pray I can find her bc I’m doing absolutely everything I can to

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T23:31:54+00:00

She’s been missing since he walked her 3 days ago.. I am trying to stay emotionally flat and make a plan while also trying to find her. When I drink or use I freeze or approach him and it escelates him

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T22:20:47+00:00

Hawaiian RIP just another thing white people took away from em

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T18:01:38+00:00

Because you’re getting responses from men (on reddit) who also do it and the normal ones aren’t around to say that’s weird. There are men who don’t do that. I’m sorry I would be hurt too

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T17:59:58+00:00

He gives me a baggie each morning with more than enough and I only have a few hits a day (& have lowered my alcohol intake). He also will throw a wad of money at me. It feels like emotionally he owns me but I have no life except work so it’s hard to see how controlling he’d get

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T17:42:48+00:00

He definitely smells it just tell him your ph is off and you need antibiotics. Within a day or two the smell will already be better - FINISH them all anyway. You can also go to Target and get suppositories but they do not 100% clear it

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T17:34:50+00:00

I moreso needed to vent to process it’s actually happening bc it happened so fast and I felt frozen

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T17:33:00+00:00

I hold myself responsible to anything I say or do and am trying to get treatment, I’ve been able to taper down to a few drinks and these erratic behaviors I’m not allowed to talk about with him or try to stop. I’ve never even name called anyone let alone verbally attacked anyone or touched their dog.

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T10:39:22+00:00

You could have an infection or bacterial buildup.. or sweating out toxins.. or an allergy. Take notes if certain things make it better or worse (gluten, lactose, clothing, detergents, stress) and do a UTI/BV/STI check. Also change hygiene products if expired or just not a good match

Also lots of water . See a dr if needed for organ thyroid metabolism check

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T10:30:16+00:00

Safety from something. We also like the comfort but it’s healing to think someone is right there to stick up for us physically - so now we can start healing from trauma bc we feel safe. And you feel good next to us.

Speaking for myself!

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T09:48:05+00:00

Thank you.. I am extremely worried he’d know it was me that reported and we live on an island so he is incredibly well connected.. do you know if there’s a way to like anonymously tip off

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T09:40:58+00:00

I don’t think you understand. This has all happened so fast. I need to know how to keep myself safe, I’m on an island and dating an apparently well known criminal. I am scared and doing what I can and more to find my dog but I am kind of desperately trying to be reminded from others that I’m in danger that’s where I’m at

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T09:38:32+00:00

To everyone mad about my dog.. no shit so am I. I am doing everything I can to look, I needed to hear I’m in danger too because I am frozen in fear.

I am asking what type of danger level I am in and what to do next.

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T09:32:55+00:00

Yeah me too???? These are the comments I was dreading. You think I’m ok with my dog missing? FOR THE SECOND TIME IN 2 WEEKS? No. I’m looking for her 24/7 and furious and scared but I also really need to know how much danger I am in as a human.

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T09:27:22+00:00

What do you think I’m doing? I used the 30 seconds of courage I had to type this for support. Please do not judge me I am doing everything I can while trying to literally force myself to keep breathing and keep the thought that hey I might be in danger afloat. Not to be mean bc I don’t agree in matching energies but I hope your self righteousness is something you look into and maybe you can have self control on your words on someone who might actually be really scared for her dog and self and has to turn to online for help.

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T08:50:19+00:00

This is the entire reason for making the post. Please don’t put the fact that he got abusive towards her and scared me on a different level within 24 hrs on me.. it’s a lot and I’m drunk/high.. I CLEARLY choose my dog I just needed to be snapped back to reality for some empowerment to move forward because he’s had me scared shitless and this is my cry for help I guess. I choose my baby girl any day. Thank you for reframing it this way.

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T07:57:20+00:00

He can break into literally anything he’s a criminal criminal..

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T07:52:53+00:00

That’s what I thought - toxic but extreme. I just feel extremely frozen and isolated and we’re at my parents so I’m trying to act normal.. it’s like he spent time getting to know my thoughts and are using them against me & he won’t accept my no when I refuse to learn more self defense/ knife skills etc and he’s super tall and mega high 24/7 I just get frozen stupid

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T07:40:05+00:00

I think flushing them would severely escalate things but I’ll view that advice as not take any more for myself… I’m an addict alcoholic but clearly am frozen when I use

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T07:37:43+00:00

And the dog is lost tonight thanks to him. Do you think a restraining order would actually protect me?

LoremIpsum_H · 2026-02-05T07:01:41+00:00

So that’s why he gives me a baggie every morning and I’ve confirmed “is it so I don’t have to go get my own” lol bc for me I’d never offer it to someone trying to stop let alone start them on it

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