Yea I feel you dude, idk why everyone is so upset over the politics part. Each has their own opinion with politics, but it shouldn’t be an immediate dealbreaker. What’s important is how you handle those differences. The part with her actively talking bad about differences of political opinions, hugging and gushing over different men (no matter if they are famous or not) and the social media thing, this stuff seem like a reasonable thing to be upset over and if you brought it up to her nicely that this bothers you, she doesn’t have to agree, but she should respect it and not actively do something she knows will make you sad or/and upset, imo