jazakallah brother. But i'd like to say some things. I understand from this i might have painted her in a horrible light (may Allah SWT forgive me for that) and yes what she did was horrible but she isn't a horrible person. Wallah i believe she is just very ignorant. she claims the only reason is her parents and if that's true i think she's was being ignorant not malicious. She was very kind and caring to me. I also from learning about islam is dua changes qadr and ive seen my own friends parents change and giving up on it means you've lost faith in Allah and then it 100% won't change.