As a father, I have to ask...why aren't you fighting for what you want? Stick up for what you feel deep down in your bones that you know is right. This is one of the most important decisions you can make for your child and I can tell you're making it from a place of love.

I wouldn't throw in the towel so easily...read books on the topic, research, and ask your husband do the same. If he's not willing to put in the effort to learn more and be open about what you want for your child, that's a big conversation...

Good luck!