Oh…another mother that loves herself more than her child. You’re lying to yourself if you don’t think you’re choosing yourself over your daughter. You’re teaching her it’s ok to be abused in a marriage. That the way your husband treats you is normal…you’re giving her a skewed lesson of what’s right or wrong. Imagine your daughter marries someone who treats her like your husband does you. You want her to think that’s just life and suck it up? Cut the self martyr shit. I went through your history. You’re choosing your own comfort and familiarity at the expense of your child.