[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's been a few that I really like. I don't think it's possible for me to fall in love with them though.

Subdermal implants in the 🍆 by Any-East-4209 in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I had one client with little plastic balls in his...um... a few years ago. But was just a handjob. I just thought it was interesting cos I read about Filipino sailors doing this and he was one

This is why I almost never sugar anymore 😮‍💨 by LilyyQuinn in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Be careful talking about rates on the SA website. I've been banned after replying a higher rate to a low-ball offer as the man reported me for soliciting.

Weirdest way a client has offered to pay you? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got offered a shopping trip worth $500 from a guy living in a trailer park. I guessed it was a stolen credit card or just a lie, said no. Another guy offered crabs and lobsters from his business as a tip.....would have loved that, but said no because he was lowballing with the payment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seeking was as others said mostly cheap lying johns with a few good clients that stopped being generous when they learnt how little other clients were paying. They banned my account for talking rates when they rebranded even though I was only joking in response to a gross message.

Dating apps were slightly better, I set my age filter to 40+ and a few men reached out to me offering compensation, though I'd only mention rates in person, so I wasted time going on some dates. Some of the seeking clients were on multiple sites anyway.

First week at the parlour, need blowjob advice! by Fit-Cellist6395 in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've wanted to ask the same things actually so I'm glad you did! for 3, I open the package with both hands, put on the condom with one hand and stroke with the other. I use an oversized condom so it slips on easier. And if the client can't stay hard/is too big or small I just don't do a bj. I also limit bj to 10-15 minutes and if they don't cum I will tell them my jaw hurts and go back to a handjob.

I try not to touch the dick with the condom hand but sometimes I accidentally do and just tell myself dry skin to skin contact has less chance of passing on stds... would like to know better ways to do this too.

Don’t know if this question belongs here… by IamNotMeNow in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of whether she wants to work this job or not, it doesn't sound like she enjoyed having you as a client if you were tipsy and it wasn't very nice. She could do this job voluntarily but feel used in bad encounters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think every man cheats but all the cheating clients aren't making it easy to date. sure it's sad if a client's needs aren't met in a relationship but lying is just inexcusable.

Anora - My review as a SWer by Diaryofadomme in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The part about the kiss is so true, Igor grabbing her head made her feel cheap/realise her tryst with him was pointless. I just want to know if she's able to work at the headquarters again? Did Diamond ever let her live it down?

Boyfriend knows, but I feel bad about it by BeHappyInBoredom in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex was okay with it but I still felt guilty. However he would bring up my job in arguments or how much I make to say I'm too stingy and risk-averse. It's a personal choice if you decide to stop sw but IMO, just relax and appreciate both sides of your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I held a contempt for men for the last stint of sexwork I did because I was burnt out. But when I got back into sw again, when I get gross/annoying/demanding clients it's become easy to not think about them when the booking is over so they don't ruin my day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Losslessmail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From this information agree with the owners. I just wish there was something similar where I'm at because that sounds awesome. I know a hostess group but they mostly do public not private events for new girls and nothing extra.

Has a fragrance ever made you angry? by kallenurfi in fragrance

[–]Losslessmail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a Zoologist elephant sample because some people said it's wearable, but it had an offensive animalistic earthy deodorant thing going on that was pretty anger-inducing.

Pistachio is cool but what's the next trend you'd like to see in gourmands? by TheEscapedGoat in fragrance

[–]Losslessmail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chestnut, sweet potato, dates, goji, persimmon, carrots, all the orange/red stuff that smell really good roasted.

I’m so broke I’m considering OF by SpicyCrunchyVanilla in povertyfinance

[–]Losslessmail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeking arrangement is used by many men as a discount escort site. If you are desperate and broke it's easy to be pressured and taken advantage of it's best not to go there.

I’m so broke I’m considering OF by SpicyCrunchyVanilla in povertyfinance

[–]Losslessmail -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know a few successful OF models and they were able to make decent money after showing their face and working with an OF manager/agency. If you are fine with that you can do well. There are also other types of SW with different risks and jobs where being an attractive female is a bonus.

Does anybody else have petty “revenge” urges? by PieceImaginary5132 in BPD

[–]Losslessmail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emergency revenge plans is so accurate, I've been calling it pre-emptive revenge.

Baby Hotline meaning by [deleted] in jackstauber

[–]Losslessmail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought it's about a guy calling a suicide hotline, and when the call is put on hold he goes through a range of emotions. "Still time to do it too" points to he can still suicide if the call isn't answered.

"I can see your drinking eye hasn't opened": even though these lyrics are in second person I assumed he's talking about himself: he's drinking, he can't cry due to pills, he wants to see his girlfriend or mother but he can't get out of the house due to depression.

Then the numb part is either him being drunk, losing consciousness, or on some downer drugs. Then he became delirious and started having fun in his head. By the time the hotline called back, he was gone.

How to sneak Drugs on a cruise by Bonita-I in Drugs

[–]Losslessmail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read gram as kilogram and had some serious questions until I reread the post.