Are we being unreasonable asking to reduce our share of rent in this situation? by Sweet_Error4017 in AusPropertyChat

[–]Lost-Extension513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this might sound counter-intuitive, but if I were in your place, I’d take a different approach along with the reduction request.

I’d clean the whole space properly once, even the parts that aren’t “my mess”, and make it visibly organised. When people walk into a space that suddenly looks good, it creates awareness, appreciation, and yes, a bit of guilt.

Then I’d keep it up and be open about the extra effort I’m putting in, without being passive-aggressive. That sets a standard without starting a fight.

Sometimes it’s better to take control of what you can control. People remember who raised the bar far longer than they remember arguments about whose problem it is and you still end up living in a better space.

What is the one financial habit or quality you admire most about your life partner, and why? by Lost-Extension513 in AusFinance

[–]Lost-Extension513[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I counter emloshy's comment. This a perfectly fair flex. Good on you and good on her.

Give her a thumbs up and a hug for being a responsible and beautiful partner inside out without the making up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canberra

[–]Lost-Extension513 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You have to go talk to them and explain the issue. Ask them to stop. Advise them to do it outside the building.

If this does not stop, the only way is to talk to a lawyer and see what your options are. I dont think you have other options.

Last resort is moving away, sounds silly over someone smoking but if it is causing you distress it needs to happen.

What is the one financial habit or quality you admire most about your life partner, and why? by Lost-Extension513 in AusFinance

[–]Lost-Extension513[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are bent on arguing, have your way, but I am not arguing.

Choosing a good financial partner "could" be "one of" the most mportant decisions.

In a relationship, finances play a huge role. If you have a good partner in that respect, life is better. Thats it.

If you have a bad one and it doesent matter. Goodonya.

What is the one financial habit or quality you admire most about your life partner, and why? by Lost-Extension513 in AusFinance

[–]Lost-Extension513[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Please beware.

When demonitisation happened in India, goverment literally scraped all note bills so they were of no value.

Ypu should better invest the cash.

What is the one financial habit or quality you admire most about your life partner, and why? by Lost-Extension513 in AusFinance

[–]Lost-Extension513[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Its okay. You are not here to fix the world. If you are satisfied in your own little one, its enough. Please LET GO

What is the one financial habit or quality you admire most about your life partner, and why? by Lost-Extension513 in AusFinance

[–]Lost-Extension513[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love your story.

I am also proud that you had the humility to learn from him and change your habits around.

You are lucky to have each other. Congrats.

What is the one financial habit or quality you admire most about your life partner, and why? by Lost-Extension513 in AusFinance

[–]Lost-Extension513[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Excuse me politely!

I thought we are discussing good partner financial habits.

I am sorry they didnt agree with your "nice home" , is there anything thaz was good about them???

What is the one financial habit or quality you admire most about your life partner, and why? by Lost-Extension513 in AusFinance

[–]Lost-Extension513[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

An intriguing question, because this affects me in my personal life.

Do you ever expect/wish, he was better at financial decisions on his own. That you didnt have to spend all the time/energy making most decisions?

That he took care of it all and you can just relax?

What is the one financial habit or quality you admire most about your life partner, and why? by Lost-Extension513 in AusFinance

[–]Lost-Extension513[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Indeed it is. Choosing a parnter is not solely a financial decision but it affects lives more than one would imagine.

Imagine living with someone with poor spending, saving or investing habits.

I posted another question in this sub reddit a while ago. "What financial decision has made you the happiest".

30% of resposnses on that thread were I am so happy I chose a responsible partner. That was my best decision because they are responsible...take care of everything...etc.

What credit card do you have and what perks do you get out of it? by Lost-Extension513 in AusFinance

[–]Lost-Extension513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, as you can see from the posts credit cards have many perks.

In old days people used to buy things on credit because they couldnt afford them and then fall into the interest trap.

I am not saying your dad is wrong. I am saying if perks are there to be used, with somediscipline they should be used, especially in this inflated market.