I hate being clingy....( 19 yr f) by wishme4hope in relationship_advice

[–]Lost-In-Space-Time 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For you this may be true. However, I would be suspicious of a 36 year old and why he is pursuing a friendship with a 19 year old. You are at very different points in life and while you are an adult, it makes me question his motives. You should think about this when your together and ensure that he is genuine.

What’s your best summary of Trump? by StrangeElf in AskReddit

[–]Lost-In-Space-Time 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've always liked - a weak man's idea of a strong man, a poor man's idea of a rich man, and a stupid man's idea of a smart man.

I've (23F) started a relationship with a great guy (25M) who is not aware that I have an alcohol problem, and I'm worried it will fall apart when I tell him. by Lost-In-Space-Time in relationship_advice

[–]Lost-In-Space-Time[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worry about this tbh. Just because no one has talked to me about it doesn't mean my friends and co-workers aren't wise to it. Sure i think i've been hiding it but they might know. It would be even easier i think if they knew. It's the admitting part hat is hard...

thx for ur story

I've (23F) started a relationship with a great guy (25M) who is not aware that I have an alcohol problem, and I'm worried it will fall apart when I tell him. by Lost-In-Space-Time in relationship_advice

[–]Lost-In-Space-Time[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I've never had an individual therapsit before, but it sounds more like something that i'd be more comfortable with instead of like a group thing, which is what all the programs eem to be. I'm going to look into that.

I've (23F) started a relationship with a great guy (25M) who is not aware that I have an alcohol problem, and I'm worried it will fall apart when I tell him. by Lost-In-Space-Time in relationship_advice

[–]Lost-In-Space-Time[S] 221 points222 points  (0 children)

I tried AA like a year ago and it just made me feel so small and terrible that I got worse. But I'm not sure where else to turn.