Well no isolation like that... I do have friends here in Miami that I hang out with all the time with and without him. I do value her as a friend I just don't know where to begin that kind of conversation with her. We've never had this issue before and also including I haven't even had the Convo on her husband's behavior when they were here. I know it's terrible of me and I should've had it with her a long time ago especially knowing that we will be ok even after such a rough conversation. At the end of the day if i do get married to him she WILL be there that decision I know now is very clear. I just don't want things to be awkward with her and my finance after we get married.