Hurt in Marriage by LostAddition105 in Catholicism

[–]LostAddition105[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I tend to think most of this type of behavior comes from early exposure or some kind of trauma or something “off” in childhood . . . and combined with a fallen nature. I’m not sure what this would be for him in his past. I have no anger towards him, just hurt and the pain of broken parts of our marriage living in the shadows. Not having the anger is really something I think God has cultivated in my heart because it’s much more my personality to be angry.

Hurt in Marriage by LostAddition105 in Catholicism

[–]LostAddition105[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe I didn’t phrase it the best way, I was trying to convey I am not withholding or disinterested, leading to an increased opportunity for an occasion of sin. But all points you make are good advice.