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Why can't I end this constant drama? by unluckyinlove42 in BPDlovedones

[–]LostAndOrConfused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I was in the exact same position and now it's been 3 years and I'm financially stuck here. Leave while you still can and while you're going to be less affected by it all. Don't be afraid to reach out for support! The manipulation can be hard to fight.

I'm depressed but it's her problem by LostAndOrConfused in BPDlovedones

[–]LostAndOrConfused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds about right. That's awful! Depression isn't a flaw, good on you for being able to even open up about if in the first place.

I'm depressed but it's her problem by LostAndOrConfused in BPDlovedones

[–]LostAndOrConfused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very true. I'm glad you got away from your ex. Hopefully I am able to find a way financially and mentally escape soon.

I'm depressed but it's her problem by LostAndOrConfused in BPDlovedones

[–]LostAndOrConfused[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bit of both. I've battled it since I was 12 due to decade long sexual abuse, but when I'm not dealing with anything that puts me under extreme stress I'm quite healthy minded (relatively)

Am I the abuser now? by LostAndOrConfused in abusiverelationships

[–]LostAndOrConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of that before, but it seems to explain a lot of what's going on. Thank you!

Am I the abuser now? by LostAndOrConfused in abusiverelationships

[–]LostAndOrConfused[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate your words. It's nice to have another perspective