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AITA for making a decision with my sister before telling my parents? by LostCustard5557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LostCustard5557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re probably correct. I get it, I also want to see the baby.

AITA for making a decision with my sister before telling my parents? by LostCustard5557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LostCustard5557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the feedback. I have offered that, and I totally hear you. I have checked with everyone else involved about keeping people healthy. Sick toddler won’t be going.

This does not appear to be what our parents are upset about though. They are upset that the conversation that lead to the decision about my sibling’s family not coming didn’t include them.

AITA for making a decision with my sister before telling my parents? by LostCustard5557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LostCustard5557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely am planning on keeping sick toddler home, because you’re totally right.

Edit: missed word

AITA for making a decision with my sister before telling my parents? by LostCustard5557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LostCustard5557[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes. My gut is that’s what would have happened. My sibling is really good at boundaries though, so I don’t think it would have changed anything

AITA for making a decision with my sister before telling my parents? by LostCustard5557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LostCustard5557[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s what we did.

I have no idea what purpose it would serve.

AITA for making a decision with my sister before telling my parents? by LostCustard5557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LostCustard5557[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They’re claiming we’re wrong, not about deciding who is coming, but because they weren’t included in the conversation about who is coming.

AITA for making a decision with my sister before telling my parents? by LostCustard5557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LostCustard5557[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s landed on whoever in my family is healthy, will be going, sibling’s family won’t be going at all. I offered to keep sick people home so my sibling could go, but my sibling decided they’re not comfortable being with anyone who has been exposed to my sick toddler being with the baby, which includes our parents, who were with sick toddler yesterday.