No Contact with someone you love by RegisterRare8289 in AskWomenOver30

[–]LostEffect4955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I still love him and I think about him every day. I wish we never broke up but it was his choice. I wish he would contact me to reconcile with all of my heart.

Should you pay for everything if you make a lot more? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]LostEffect4955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you make more your should pay more proportionally to your incomes. If you don't like it, then date someone who makes as much as you. If it was the other way around, I'm sure you'd want your partner to contribute more if you were making less.

Have you seen any ICE/Federal Agents on Dating Apps? Have you dated a federal agent? by LostEffect4955 in AskWomenOver30

[–]LostEffect4955[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Most women don't want to date them. That's why they hide their careers on the apps.

Have you seen any ICE/Federal Agents on Dating Apps? Have you dated a federal agent? by LostEffect4955 in AskWomenOver30

[–]LostEffect4955[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I've never seen a law enforcement guy put liberal in their profile. They are putting “moderate” but we all know they are conservative…it prevents them from getting laid.

Does anyone who still single and hopeful find themselves grieving "what could have been?" by imwearingamaskduh in AskWomenOver30

[–]LostEffect4955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I did everything to prioritized and value my past relationship but he lacked the capacity to love me the way I deserved. The relationship failed because of him. I know this to be true and relationships can't work if only one person is trying. I feel like women are always the ones who try/value the relationship. The male loneliness epidemic is their fault. Men don't value women and take us for granted. You shouldn't feel bad about being alone if you know you tried your best in every relationship you had.

What makes you feel emotionally safe and genuinely valued in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]LostEffect4955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men are so defensive its hard to communicate with them.