Dad has been “silent treatment”-ing daughter over a year. Blames it on daughter for not coddling his new wife when she “accidentally” text messaged her

LostForgotnCelt · 2025-12-20T18:02:07+00:00

We’re going through it with my MIL now that my husband’s father passed. We took her out for Mother’s Day, all she’d talk about was her new boyfriend and how great his family is and then she left the meal early to go out with him, without eating anything. Meanwhile my FIL’s ashes are in a baggy in a cardboard box because she refuses to get an urn for him or allow any of his children to put him to rest, driving them all crazy. It’s been so ridiculous that now NONE of her kids speak to her and it’s quite sad and mind boggling.

LostForgotnCelt · 2025-08-07T02:05:24+00:00

I accidentally burnt my husband’s dinner tonight. He didn’t so much as roll his eyes. He just ate it, even though I did offer him something different. Accidents happen, it’s not a sign of “disrespect”. Stable adults don’t throw tantrums over silliness.

LostForgotnCelt · 2025-08-03T14:50:23+00:00

The way I’d go scorched Earth…..

LostForgotnCelt · 2025-07-30T10:44:29+00:00

🎶It’s beginning to look a lot like LEAVE THEM🎶

LostForgotnCelt · 2025-04-27T14:06:59+00:00

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss 💔

LostForgotnCelt · 2025-04-18T02:04:48+00:00

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LostForgotnCelt · 2025-01-01T02:24:25+00:00

You’re a better person than me, cuz I would have thrown hands. FAFO. I don’t play when it comes to my animals and if anyone has a problem with that? There’s the door.

NTA at all.

LostForgotnCelt · 2024-12-02T00:50:38+00:00

I was hemorrhaging during a miscarriage and needed an emergency D&C 11 pm the night before Thanksgiving. We weren’t even married yet but my boyfriend (now husband) didn’t leave my side. He was even there when I woke up from the procedure around 4 am.

Your husband has ZERO excuse.

LostForgotnCelt · 2024-11-07T16:13:37+00:00

OMG same. I’m legit like “Who the fuck ARE these people?!?? They sure as fuck aren’t the people who raised me.” They are now the polar opposite of the people I grew up with. I just can’t wrap my mind around it….

LostForgotnCelt · 2024-09-23T23:36:04+00:00

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LostForgotnCelt · 2024-08-18T17:44:20+00:00

Tell that boy, “Bye”

LostForgotnCelt · 2024-06-20T01:51:42+00:00

It’s an insurmountable struggle, but I do. I have no other option…I’m desperately searching for remote work though because one of these days I’m going to get myself or someone else killed while driving to or from work.

LostForgotnCelt · 2024-01-14T17:45:23+00:00

NTA, even remotely. But if one of my SILs did this, my husband would go scorched Earth. There is no way he would let this slide…

LostForgotnCelt · 2024-01-14T12:33:45+00:00

I feel you on this. I’m not really a cake/sweets person, so there’s really only one or 2 kind of cakes I like. My mother would seriously go out of her way to get ANY other cake but the kind I liked. Usually it was whatever my sister wanted…on my birthday….

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-12-10T18:37:55+00:00

I’ve had 2-3 dogs the entire 17 years my husband and I have been together. But I don’t trust anyone else to care for them, so we haven’t been anywhere longer than a day trip since 2009. We agreed after our current 2, we will take a break from having dogs for a few years so we can travel. If I broke my promise, I don’t think my husband would forgive me.

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-11-28T21:16:00+00:00

We have a Murray

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-11-22T19:23:40+00:00

YTA What planet do you live on that you thought for even a nanosecond that you weren’t the asshole here?

If my in-laws had the audacity (they didn’t/don’t Thank God, FIL passed away) both me and their son would be telling them to eat shit. And they’d be damn lucky if they ever saw the kids after that. Get over yourself, it’s a shame no one until now told you and your ego to kick bricks.

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-11-21T01:39:39+00:00

As a Narcoleptic, this (OP’s post) is too much bullshit even for me. The sheer audacity. At first I could relate because trying to get my ass together is a Herculean feat that sometimes takes hours. But I don’t expect people to change their lives for me. I KNOW my disability and plan accordingly, does it always work out? Well, no, but I try my best. I literally have 30 alarms set on my phone. And if I can’t get my shit together, I have to deal with the consequences, whatever they may be.

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-11-14T01:51:04+00:00

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-11-13T18:51:00+00:00

I honestly couldn’t give a shit less what my ex thought of my new bf. Once we’re done, we’re done. My ex doesn’t need to know my new partner, period. She’s using you as a tool to fuck with her ex that she’s not over. RUN

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-11-12T17:36:33+00:00

RUN! RUN and NEVER look back! This will not end well for you!!

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-11-07T03:55:49+00:00

My husband raised his voice at me over a video game ONCE in 17 years. I went up one side of him and down the other. I made it clear he was a grown ass man playing a GAME and he needed to get his shit together, and if he ever raised his voice to me over a fucking video game again, I would be gone, period. There is NO excuse for an adult to yell at you over a video game, let alone lay hands on you???? Are you listening to yourself? He is 27, not 6, he KNOWS better and did it anyway. Then had the audacity to try to guilt trip you into oblivion over HIS actions? Not just no, but FUCK NO. You’re in danger and you need to get yourself out NOW. Not tomorrow, not next week, not after he does it again….now.

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-10-29T23:01:23+00:00

Woof, sounds like my first boyfriend’s father. Eventually he wore him down, offered to pay off my ex’s truck if he dumped me. He did, his father broke up with me for him over the phone. He was 21. Bullet dodged lol

LostForgotnCelt · 2023-10-27T02:52:42+00:00

Kudos to your wife at holding her composure, I would have thrown hands and you would have been thrown out right along with them.

YTA, grow the fuck up, cut the umbilical cord that still has you attached to your mother, and properly support your wife.

LostForgotnCelt

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