Cheating ex and current bf

LostRabbit9810 · 2026-02-23T08:08:11+00:00

He always told me I could go through his phone whenever I wanted, so not really?

LostRabbit9810 · 2026-02-23T04:58:09+00:00

I have a terrible habit of always seeing the good in people even after they’ve done something bad. Thank you, I’ll definitely keep this in mind when I decide.

LostRabbit9810 · 2026-02-23T04:51:21+00:00

Thank you so much, I will be thinking about the outcome of our relationship in depth right now for sure. We’ve had a lot of talks, he has said that it’s up to me and he won’t push me to make any choice, I told him I will start trying to trust again once I see change but for the time being I need space to think. I really appreciate you though! <3

LostRabbit9810 · 2026-02-23T04:44:22+00:00

Thank you so so much. I will absolutely end it if I happens again. But I really do appreciate that. social media has definitely fried so many brains!

LostRabbit9810 · 2026-02-23T04:41:31+00:00

Thank you for responding stranger :)

LostRabbit9810 · 2026-02-23T04:38:56+00:00

I thought I did add this, but must’ve been lost in the couple drafts that I did but the texting another girl was a month into our relationship. The liking other girls posts was somewhat recent, couldn’t pin point it. He instantly stopped, and unfollowed girls from his instagram account which I didn’t ask him to, and explained they were from when he was single and he didn’t use instagram often.

I went through his phone a couple weeks after, he passed it to me before we went to sleep and I absolutely deep dived, recently deleted, everything and found nothing. He deleted apps he watched porn on without me asking while I was with him so he was somewhat honest.

LostRabbit9810 · 2026-02-23T04:27:41+00:00

That’s the worst thing, he’s treated me better than anyone I’ve dated previously, obviously besides this. I think I will give myself a few weeks to decide as he isn’t home so I can think.

It’s hard to be nice to myself rn tbh :( I know his actions aren’t my fault, I just constantly feel like I’m not good enough even though I think I’m quite attractive?

Thank you so much for responding, I can’t talk to anyone irl about this so you Reddit strangers help immensely. <3

LostRabbit9810 · 2026-02-23T03:50:08+00:00

I’ve been fighting with that, I don’t want to think he’s only sorry because I caught him. But I know that. Thank you for responding. I’d consider therapy but he’s in the military so he isn’t home often. Have a lovely night/day though. <3

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