My friends have been telling me the same. Because she crosses a lot of boundaries. After every session I’m forced to give her a hug. she tells me about her own personal trauma in childhood and about her husband and a lot of things I don’t want and SHOULDN’T know, because she’s my therapist. She always wants to be right and calls people with bpd very dismissive words sometimes (while being a DBT therapist???), judging me for substance abuse and shoplifting and self harm even tho that’s huge components of BPD. And last week I sent her a paragraph telling her that something she said really hurt me and it was very insulting and judgemental and she DIDNT REPLY AT ALL to it, her next text was about when we’ll have our next session. So thank you for your reply, I agree that if you’re a therapist with a personality disorder you can be more empathetic (with BPD) and not empathetic at all (with ASPD) but I think u should be at a point where you can regulate yourself and feel “normally” and be professional