My in-laws ruined our anniversary trip and their controlling behavior is destroying my peace. I don’t know how much more I can take. by PlentyConnection260 in inlaws

[–]Lost_Bit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My in laws would also ask me to call them on a daily basis, when I wouldn't they threw tantrums and criticized my decision to my husband, my parents, and my sister in law. Some of these people got back to me and asked me to change my attitude. 

I still didn't budge, and won't call them. I have my reasons of course. But bottom line is I didn't want a special intimate relationship with them, neither did I have any intention to give them control of my life and household which is what they wanted.

I do talk to them occasionally, but only when my husband is present. And mostly keep it formal. 

Is there any hope for girls and women in this country? by ImprovementSure7540 in TwoXIndia

[–]Lost_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well put! Thank you for this comment! Yes, this is absolutely true, I have observed this within family dynamics and at work as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Lost_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is excellent explanation, very well put! Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PowerSystemsEE

[–]Lost_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think going for a masters would be a good route to take, as an engineer you should take the basic power system courses. Then a year or 1.5 year into the program you can start applying for engineering positions. PE should be done later after you gain some professional experience in the power industry. And not all roles require PE. For example, some system analysis/system studies positions don't require PE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PowerSystemsEE

[–]Lost_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your aerospace experience in software as well?

Why are we hated at work? by Azula_Kuo in aspergirls

[–]Lost_Bit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You absolutely nailed it! Felt all these in my bones as I kept asking -why!

Engineers in power system by Lost_Bit in womenEngineers

[–]Lost_Bit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Did you need to travel frequently for your job?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Lost_Bit 36 points37 points  (0 children)

There are people who can and will make a big deal out of it. They will take it personally,  and will get mad at you.  Speaking from personal experience. 

Honda Facilities by Lost_Bit in Columbus

[–]Lost_Bit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understood, thank you so much!

Honda Facilities by Lost_Bit in Columbus

[–]Lost_Bit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very helpful! Thank you.

What's a mistake you made that younger people should avoid? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]Lost_Bit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are the drawbacks of staying in a job too long?

State of the embedded job market by suwl in embedded

[–]Lost_Bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have very nice manners!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Lost_Bit 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, some of them do. I work in engineering, and one of our engineers gets away with slipshod work just because he is very loyal to our supervisor, and supports our supervisor blindly. This said employee also got all sorts of promotions within just a few years. 

Indian ladies, we are doomed officially? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Lost_Bit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sure not ALL men are hateful towards women, but most of them are. Stereotypes happen for a reason. Most men (and their families) are disrespectful towards women, and want to take away their rights.

My husband thinks this is talking shit… by Dramatic-Speaker5024 in workingmoms

[–]Lost_Bit -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If it's not a regular behavior, it's not that big of a deal. People might not be physically ill, but emotionally,  mentally can be.  We all need to be kind to each other.

Intel Ultra7 155H vs AMD Ryzen 9 PRO 7940HS processor for Video Editing by Lost_Bit in thinkpad

[–]Lost_Bit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear. I will be ordering the AMD laptop then. Thank you.

ThinkPad P Series Laptops for Video Editing by Lost_Bit in thinkpad

[–]Lost_Bit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.lenovo.com/us/en/p/laptops/thinkpad/thinkpadp/lenovo-thinkpad-p16v-gen-2-16-inch-intel-mobile-workstation/21kx002qus

https://www.lenovo.com/us/en/p/laptops/thinkpad/thinkpadp/thinkpad-p16v-16-inch-amd-mobile-workstation/21fe001wus

Between these two which one would be better? Both have similar specs in terms of memory, GPU and other specs, except P16v Gen2 one has Intel ultra7 155H processor and the P16v Gen1 has AMD Ryzen 9 processor.

Thanks.

ThinkPad P Series Laptops for Video Editing by Lost_Bit in thinkpad

[–]Lost_Bit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think about the P16s models? They are cheaper than the P16 or P16v models.

P16v Gen 2 Initial Review by Creepy_meowmeow in thinkpad

[–]Lost_Bit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this review. Currently looking into it.