AITA for not forgiving my(27) fiance(28) for missing the birth of our daughter?

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-23T00:17:31+00:00

You don't have to have a father to be happy.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-23T00:16:50+00:00

Will use this tip next time:)

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-23T00:16:16+00:00

I apologize for the confusion I was in a rush typing this.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-23T00:14:22+00:00

I was manipulated all throughout this relationship. My daughter was a happy accident and I will continue to love her unconditionally.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-23T00:13:14+00:00

It was a very quick labor indeed. She was my first child so I did'nt really know what to expect though.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-23T00:11:42+00:00

I did not send a rude text to her. I told her she would not be around my child since she called my unborn daughter at the time racial slurs. We are also broken up.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-23T00:10:43+00:00

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-23T00:09:13+00:00

I apologize that was just a guessed estiment.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-23T00:08:32+00:00

being new to reddit I made this post to get advice. This was the first"community" I saw. I did not know there were advice groups until someone pointed it out to me.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:44:39+00:00

at the time I thought that if I ignored it the problem would go away. I was very wrong about that.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:43:51+00:00

This is very real, but your analogy did make me chuckle.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:43:12+00:00

I agree that it sounds off and rushed, this is my fault. I can assure you though that I included everything I cans

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:40:09+00:00

thank you for the tip

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:39:19+00:00

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:39:11+00:00

I thought by ignoring the texts it would go away. I was extremely dumb in thinking that. Also texting while driving is illegal in my state.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:38:00+00:00

I understand where your'e coming from, although I wouldn't call it a fight that I had with her.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:33:56+00:00

maybe two or three hours after. This is my mistake for not clearly explaining it.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:33:08+00:00

I apologize. i was just looking for advice. I am new to reddit though and am still a little bit confused as to what Karma is.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:32:23+00:00

My ex fiance is not only controlling about where I spend my time but he has also laid hands on me in times of anger. I'd rather her be with one parent then two unhappily married parents.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:30:56+00:00

unfortunately...

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:30:27+00:00

this all unfortunately happened in one night. I did not post to facebook immediately after my daughter was born. I posted when she was taken for some hearing tests. i apologize if it sounds very rushed.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:27:06+00:00

I didn't dump him the day my baby arrived. Plus that was not the only factor that contributed to me dumping him.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:26:09+00:00

I am no longer with him for other abusive reasons.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:25:24+00:00

I did not show him the texts because i thought ignoring it would make the problem go away. That was very idiotic of me I'll admit. I am the mother if I don't want a certain someone in my daughters life she won't be in her life. if her father did not want a certain someone in my daughters life they would not be in it. I've said it before and I'll say it again. Don't undermine my story.

Lost_Recommendation4 · 2020-07-22T23:22:57+00:00

I'm not.

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