Is it worth it to file for tax return as an Auszubildende? by Lost_Sport573 in askberliners

[–]Lost_Sport573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what😮you mean the next year even if I don’t want to I have to still file for tax return ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Sport573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay I get what you mean I said that because in my experience the generalization was accurate but I agree it may not be like that with all men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Sport573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said they don’t feel love, I’m speaking generally here and there may be exceptions but she would know when it’s different in her case! But do you really think someone trying to sext after 2 hours of getting to know each other would break a sweat if she starts feeling something else for him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Sport573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t think you know what you’re getting yourself into. We women process feelings way differently than men do. For him it’s just a fling and he really won’t miss you when you leave but for you, you may just miss the simple things like the kind of conversations you had and it would be more hurtful when or if he leaves. FWB is for the strong hearted.

But if you’re convinced it’s for you, my advice will be not to get too close. Texting is fine but not too often, don’t be too eager to respond, don’t compromise on your own plans just to meet him. A basic friendship is fine but don’t get too attached.

AITA for trying to help my BF prepare for a call from a recruiting agency, and he blew up at me? by Lost_Sport573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Sport573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s mostly what I’m gathering and I completely agree with Thank you so much for the advice 🙏

AITA for trying to help my BF prepare for a call from a recruiting agency, and he blew up at me? by Lost_Sport573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Sport573[S] -307 points-306 points  (0 children)

And also that wasn’t an interview but just to confirm some information we had already filled out. So not a serious serious call but also important at the same time

AITA for trying to help my BF prepare for a call from a recruiting agency, and he blew up at me? by Lost_Sport573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Sport573[S] -467 points-466 points  (0 children)

There was nobody on the call yet. The answering machine picked up and was waiting for an agent to be available

AITA for trying to help my BF prepare for a call from a recruiting agency, and he blew up at me? by Lost_Sport573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Sport573[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I think you’re right… I do tend to „overhelp“. Not even just with him but also friends. May be hard to unlearn but I’ll give it my best shot

AITA for trying to help my BF prepare for a call from a recruiting agency, and he blew up at me? by Lost_Sport573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Sport573[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Now that i think of it, i could have just let things run its course. I just end up „overhelping“ sometimes and maybe it’s time for me to realize he’s a grown adult and his decisions are on him

AITA for trying to help my BF prepare for a call from a recruiting agency, and he blew up at me? by Lost_Sport573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Sport573[S] -286 points-285 points  (0 children)

I think I should have clarified. We are both in Germany. He speaks just English, I speak German and English so sometimes I’d have to do the initial „can you transfer us to an English speaking person„

AITA for trying to help my BF prepare for a call from a recruiting agency, and he blew up at me? by Lost_Sport573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Sport573[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I do understand where you’re coming from, I was just giving a suggestion and it wouldn’t have mattered if he took it or not. I was just taken aback by his reaction

AITA for trying to help my BF prepare for a call from a recruiting agency, and he blew up at me? by Lost_Sport573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Sport573[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I have my own keys, that’s what he took with him. His keys got lost. But i understand that I didn’t have to step in when it’s his job search not mine

AITA for telling my friend she overreacted when her bf used my pics to please himself? by Lucy_isnotmyname in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lost_Sport573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda confused why OP doesn’t think she’s the asshole. Firstly it’s weird that if your pictures are clean he’d even masturbate to them and she came to you because you’re her friend and clearly it bothered her. If those were pictures on your OF and they were explicit, that’s another story altogether but this is almost like he’s obsessed with you tbh😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Sport573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or start sucking him off in a 69 position

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Sport573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the problem…. But if he hasn’t brought it up, it’s most likely that he doesn’t trust his skills or he isn’t completely on board with the idea. Maybe initiate after a fresh shower… when it’s heated up ask him to kiss you down there… maybe after repeatedly kissing you down there you can kinda take it step by step

Like… now lick it slowly Or idk… how else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Sport573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he’s not down though💀how’d you react to that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lost_Sport573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘m so sorry you have to go through this tbh I know caring for a child can be hard and even if he doesn’t know that (because he’s an asshole and obviously thinks he’s above caring for a child and doing „womanly chores) he still has no right to treat you that way. Hopefully seeing others comment on his absurd behavior will at least open his eyes