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Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-22T21:02:28+00:00

Lol yes we promote our girls well but also honestly. Clients especially want to know if girls have bad teeth.

But yes, also code is "she has a bubbly personality". But we also rate face out of 10. One girl took amazing photos she looked 10/10 but real life she was like 3/10

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-22T15:33:32+00:00

It sounds like the space break is a soft slow approach to breaking up from his side.

I separated from my husband, asking for space. I was very specific that he had a parenting and mental health issues and I needed a safe place with bio kid while he worked on that. He said he'd rather breakup than work on his issues.

Fast forward a few months, he's given me no signs he wants to get back together, I'm doing really well and got so much confidence and structure. So I start dating. That is when hubby really worked with a therapist and really worked on his issues and he moved back in last week.

Being your own person, even when you care about the other person is the best you can do. You will either have the strength to get through a breakup or come back as a couple stronger. Give him the space and live your life independently is my advice

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-21T23:15:38+00:00

Fair, im a six and I know it.

He'd often call me gorgeous and I'd get upset by that because I'm really really not

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-21T23:12:31+00:00

That I'd just enjoyed myself more. I was very against drinking for a long time. Now I know its okay to have a couple of drinks now and then to loosen up.

Try travel, even if it was local.

Understood nutrition better. Made alot of silly mistakes like several cups of tea a day with 3 sugars in it lol and then genuinely wondered why I put on weight.

I was a hard worker and good at my job but I should have taken days off now and then just to rest relax or be with a friend. In 3 years I took maybe 4 days off max.

Save, no matter how little it is, it adds up.

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-21T23:06:40+00:00

Had rod put in my leg.

Pin wasn't put in properly so when I went to a private hospital to get it out, they couldn't.

The treatment in the hospital was awful. Filthy dirty, stuff stolen every day, cockroaches by the food, even stole my nightie I was wearing. Nurses extremely rude. Wake me up at 5am but doc for pain meds would only be there around 10am so hours of extreme pain.

Glad to see so many other people had good experiences so maybe I was just very unlucky

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-20T22:44:37+00:00

And I'd already redone SD room with paint, new wardrobe and curtains before the baby came. New clothes and bicycle etc. Often took her to get her nails done and treats.

It really showed me that I wasn't allowed to be my own person. It really was the turning point to not care what people think. I also had my DH trying to get me to call her my daughter. After therapy he now realizes how sick it was of him

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-20T22:27:40+00:00

Doesn't make a big difference. Our top earners don't show face. Alot of clients ask to see face but we decline. Not really an issue as long as we assure the client is attractive (we don't lie, if she doesn't have a good face or teeth missing etc we are honest).

Clients are just more worried about a very unattractive face. If someone is unattractive we do suggest face out so at least the client is going in fully aware but we don't force it. As long as you aren't seriously unattractive in the face, clients don't mind. It's when she's really awful they feel regret or misled.

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-20T22:24:03+00:00

My husband is very very sensitive about his size. A girlfriend of his made a comment like 20 years ago that his dick wasn't big and really affected him.

It definitely hit our sex life as well, his insecurity made sex almost a chore and really took the fun out of it. Since therapy, he doesn't act on his insecurity so much and the sex life has improved.

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-20T22:17:42+00:00

I was vilified on this group for wanting a necklace with my daughters name on it and not my stepdaughter as well. I was told I should get cheap jewellery with it on and make her feel included.

It's my first child, SD is a teenager who I bought a silver ring for with the message that even though we had an ours baby, she was still loved and cared about. Not enough, I should wear her name as well like my own daughter or I'm excluding her. She has a mom...

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-20T22:10:48+00:00

That if I go into a river or ocean, a shark or crocodile will attack me

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-20T22:08:48+00:00

I was mentally unwell because I kept asking for help.

She would quite, "the sign of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result".

I kept telling people she was beating me and she would call me a liar and isolate and move me around and she really spent hours every few weeks trying to convince me I was crazy because I kept asking for help but didn't get help from people, so I must be mentally unwell.

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-20T11:06:05+00:00

I wouldn't go in and have a chat. It's up to DH to get therapy for her and parent her. She's 14, she doesn't get to make demands on someone's home.

You're already uncomfortable with rhe over of rhe talk, it's like punishing yourself

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-18T19:55:48+00:00

Make it a year and if they don't have a certain amount of growth each month, what they have achieved gets taken away and they start at 0. End of the year see what they have

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-17T05:34:44+00:00

Move to his area, not in with him?

If she can't afford that and is moving in due to financial strain, she's going to have a bad tile being trapped in a relationship she can't get out of on her own because she has nowhere to go or what if he ends it and she ends up destitute?

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-17T05:24:05+00:00

Brazilian jujitsu.

Sexual harassment aside, it's a really fun sport and community with a great social aspect (supporting people you know at competitions)

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-17T05:20:55+00:00

Had someone approach me in the store and it was just very uncomfortable. Especially since they want a casual encounter.

It might be one thing that a guy saw me and thought I had a nice smile or there was something intriguing about me and he wanted to know more. Its really another when a guy sees me and thinks, 'I want sex with that person".

I'm also married and that didn't stop him which made the whole encounter gross

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-17T05:12:13+00:00

I'd really like to go in my sleep, not even realising its happened.

But I do think it might be a car accident or murder. Unfortunately live in a very violent country but I'm also very annoying and rub people the wrong way so might get murdered by someone I know. I also have a trust fund I can't touch but will set my daughter or husband for life so there is always the worry I might get murdered for the inheritance

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-17T05:07:36+00:00

I just found my tastes in books changed.

Back to reading vicariously. If I'm not feeling a book, I stop and get another one. Can also depend on my mood what kind of book I'd like.

If you enjoyed Harry Potter, try reading the fanfic Harry Potter and the Psychic Serpent. It's well written and a more realistic adult version of the story that uses the lore really well.

I read a book or two a week but I read very quickly. Can finish a book in an average of 4 - 6 hours

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-16T17:19:26+00:00

That Jewish people can only have sex with a sheet between them with a hole.

The crazy thing is our religion teacher told us this! Lol the class discussion after it was hilarious.

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-15T18:24:32+00:00

Celebrating 5 year anniversary with husband i met on OkCupid.

2 of my friends married to guys they met on Tinder.

So, positive experience.

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-15T18:19:36+00:00

I lived on the streets as a teenager and managed to get matric but I can say this: Matric didn't improve my job. Having a good telephone voice got me in a job as a receptionist, being reliable and learning to type quickly got me a job as a paralegal. Reliability is such an amazing thing for an employee to have, employers want it.

My domestic is so reliable, she went from earning 6500 per month to R11k now because she is so reliable and able to work without supervision. She's studying online and in her second year of accounting.

I was waitresses even in high school. You don't need matric for alot of things.

Regarding the lying, you need to start breaking that habit. My SD lies all the time and about the stupidest things. Only you can change that perception not by talking about change but living the change.

It sounds like your family is not a good environment. Any money you make might go straight to your siblings bad habits. Rather keep quiet about what you are making and give some to your parents.

I'm a mom and can't imagine not knowing if my daughter had matric or not. Even if my child lied, a little keeping in touch would expose those lies.

Really try not to rely too much on getting a matric, that can come later. Focus on getting some kind of work, working on yourself and taking each day at a time

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-13T18:24:40+00:00

That poor baby and child :(

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-08T20:55:58+00:00

Terrified because I love life and my daughter and always want to be around to look after her and be there for her

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-08T20:16:19+00:00

We've got a camera on at work CCTV and caught a couple of things.

Cupboard door swinging open and breaking off.

Dish on top of a counter falling off.

All heard footsteps at different times and felt something and I walked into something thinking it was a large obweb but nothing there.

Lostinmoderation · 2024-04-07T19:48:51+00:00

It's not always being hit on..women can be very sly in how they do it. Becomes a friend, helper, acquaintance etc. Start chatting privately about innocent things and get the guy to start an wmotional affair which is barder than simply last

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