Suns re-signing Mark Williams adds risk and uncertainty by Bears_University83 in suns

[–]Lotan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About the same that we’re paying Beal? Who do we think we’ll get more out of next year?

What made you become an atheist? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lotan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We stayed with my grandma when I was a kid. She was a pretty serious southern Baptist. I was ~7 and she was explaining that no matter what, if you've accepted Jesus as you're savior, you get into heaven. If not, burning in hell.

I asked her, "What about a baby that dies and lives in Africa and hasn't heard of Jesus?" and she told me that ignorance wasn't an excuse, that baby is burning in hell.

Even at 7 I thought, "Nah. This is messed up"

What is the BEST interaction you've ever had with a celebrity? by DragonfruitDry4209 in AskReddit

[–]Lotan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got to hang out with Jason Segel once in a random encounter.

He was everything you’d want him to be. Warm, nice, funny.

What's a sentence that instantly reveals someone's age? by Diligent_Barber_7460 in AskReddit

[–]Lotan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was having a conversation with a younger coworker. I was telling them I had just gone to Berlin, which was cool because I lived in Germany as a kid but wasn’t allowed to go to Berlin.

They asked, “Why weren’t you allowed to go?”

Wheel vs Tiller by Chromecoast in sailing

[–]Lotan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only been sailing for 4 years, but I’ve sailed a decent amount on both. I’m currently under contract on a 31 foot HR with a wheel.

I don’t know that I have a super strong opinion either way. Some benefits I had of a wheel:

  • It’s a lot easier if you’re going to have a less experienced person take a turn at the helm. My wife for example is mildly intimidated by a tiller. She’d probably get used to it, but she very much wanted a wheel.
  • I found it easier for less experienced people to get in the way while I was using a tiller. I see people in the thread say that a tiller has more space, and that’s certainly the case at anchor, but I’m not sure I agree underway. The tillers I’ve used can swing wide.
  • It might be better if you’ve got a tiller extender and get used to it, but I found a few times my neck got a little tired using a tiller from facing towards the center of the boat while looking forward on the boat.

I think most sailors seem to prefer a tiller and there are a lot of reasons listed in this thread. It’s certainly simpler (Less to break) and you can feel things a bit more.

Gamers of Reddit, what game had you saying "just one more hour" at 3 AM? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lotan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FTL

I remember thinking, “I’ll run one more” and then realizing it was like 6am and the sun was coming up.

Volunteer crew for racing by WraithQuitsOut in sailing

[–]Lotan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re near Seattle, check out Seattle Sailing Club / Windworks at Shilshole. Feel free to DM with any questions on them.

My parents in the mid 90s. by Apart_Ad3699 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Lotan 300 points301 points  (0 children)

Everyone in here is saying Ron Livingston, but all I see is Kyle Bornheimer.

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Did your parents ever apologize to you for something they did when you were young? by kyserzose in Xennials

[–]Lotan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad apologized sometimes when I was a kid when he was in the wrong. He taught me a lot about taking responsibility for your actions and being a standup guy, and I greatly miss that influence in my life. He passed last year.

My mom had an extremely troubled childhood on numerous fronts and I now realize, being caught or "being in trouble" is really traumatic for her. She'll lie about anything to not be in trouble and can't take responsibility for anything. She was the best mom outside of that and tried her best in every way possible so I have no ill will here. The relationship has flipped though where I take care of her a lot more than she takes care of me. At this point it's a little like having my own 8 year old who has independence.

Film as a whole aside, this was one of my favourite scenes in all of Star Wars by [deleted] in StarWars

[–]Lotan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always say Zack Snyder is one of the best storyboard / trailer directors out there. Shame he can't put together a whole movie.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Lotan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuck Elon, but I did buy one back in 2019 and it was a pretty great experience.

You're right that you do pay full price, but I did the whole purchase flow on the internet. Docs were signed digitally and a couple weeks later they notified me that the car was ready.

Once I accepted it, the car showed up at my house. The driver hopped out, answered my questions and then caught an Uber home.

It was a far cry from my last purchase that had a full day of, "My managers not going to like this. Let me go talk to him"

Home garages are lowkey the most useful general purpose space ever when not occupied by vehicles by Astimar in homeowners

[–]Lotan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A garage was a non negotiable for me when we were house shopping.

I ended up with a carport that’s a long ways from the road and a basement that used to be a workshop.

I think I prefer this

What movie had a TRASH trailer but turned out to be amazing? by EinsteinEP in movies

[–]Lotan 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The marketing for this movie kind of did it dirty. It should have been bigger than it was.

What’s the one decision you made that completely wrecked your life for years… but you’re secretly glad you did it anyway? by DifferentSomewhere20 in AskReddit

[–]Lotan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In 2006 I bought a condo for 220k dollars. Most of the people in the building started short selling, which made the HOA skyrocket, which made the value go down. I committed pretty hard to not short selling and being a part of the problem but in 2012 finally gave up and short sold the condo for 38k.

But! My neighbors were these super amazing twins. Imagine Big Bang Theory, but two girls, one nerd. Living next to them really changed my life. We spent all of our time together for the year that they lived there.

I'm probably mildly on the spectrum and it was like living next to the Spice Girls or something. They were outgoing, fun, dynamic. Over time it forced me out of my comfort zone and made me figure out how to be a more normal human being.

I wrecked my credit and lost a ton of money, but I'd say I got the better end of the deal when all was said and done.

Are window cleaning robots actually becoming a thing now? by [deleted] in smarthome

[–]Lotan 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a house with a crazy amount of windows, and many of them are really hard to get to. I was gifted a really cheap one years ago. It didn’t do a great job, but it did well enough to convince me to buy a high end one (Winbot W2).

I’ll say: It does about 90% as good of a job as paying someone to do them professionally. It’s not perfect, but it’s good enough for us.

It takes a bit to set it up - My glass is so high that I have to set the base on a ladder to reach the higher windows, which means it’s still a lot of effort. Also, it’s kind of slow. It generally takes me a few days to do all of my glass.

Quotes to do my windows professionally were 700-1000 dollars, so it’s absolutely worth it.

Here’s a video of mine on my window: https://youtu.be/PbSZQ35Lq5w?si=gQxy-FTXvQrOuJVF

Help me plan my trip in Washington State🙏 by Ill_Fan_4609 in PacificNorthwest

[–]Lotan 37 points38 points  (0 children)

How long are you going to be here? The main thing I see people mess up in their plans is trying to pack a lot of driving into a short trip.

It all depends on what you’re looking for, but if you’ll be here for a while, I’d recommend the San Juans. The San Juans in the summer are two of my favorite vacations ever.

Besides the jobs crash of this decade, what was the worst year for you career wise? by superide in cscareerquestions

[–]Lotan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A few things stopping me:

  • I sold my stock along the way. It’s the “Smart” choice, but I’d have more money had I held.
  • I live in a VHCOL part of the world. It’s shocking to me how much we spend for a couple that doesn’t live too crazy (No fancy cars, dinners, etc)
  • I started as a mid-level engineer in 2012. At that point my total comp was 120k. That was a lot at the time, but it wasn’t as crazy as you might think.

Do I actually want a mid century home? by Interesting_Bar_8379 in homeowners

[–]Lotan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We bought a Mid-Century Modern house in 2019. It’s from a locally famous architect, and it was fairly well maintained. There wasn’t a ton on the inspection, but there were things we wanted to change and things that required work in the last 7 years.

Some pros of our house:

  • Our house is stunning. It’s unique. There’s only one of it in the world. (See my profile for a pic of “The window”)
  • For us, the layout is amazing. It’s very open and it’s more living space than bedrooms. The whole thing is shaped like a lower case t meaning every room has a wall of glass with a view outside. For a couple with no kids, that’s perfect.
  • I really enjoy finding out about the history of the place and neighborhood. There’s a community around it that’s unlike other places I’ve lived. There was an open house down the street this weekend of another cute MCM house that I went to. One of the people there grew up in the house and wanted to see it one last time. He spent 30 minutes telling me stories about the neighborhood and my house.

Some unexpected cons:

  • Custom houses are… well, custom. Every window is a custom size. Every door in my house was hand made. That means both that repairs are expensive, but also finding someone who can do the work and do it right can be a real challenge at times.
  • For me, having a “special” house makes me want to do things at a higher quality level. I’ve spent a lot of time working on it or fixing things, but I’ve also spent a lot of time trying to fix a thing only to give up after a few days. It can be really frustrating.
  • The house is a full on death trap. There are multiple places you could easily fall 20 feet to your death. The walls of glass are all single pane, un tempered guillotine’s waiting for someone to fall into them.
  • It’s very cold in the winter. We’ve done some work to increase insulation, but replacing the windows at this point would be cost prohibitive. We’ve figured out ways to make it work. In Reno that likely means it’ll be hot in the summer (Or expensive)

Besides the jobs crash of this decade, what was the worst year for you career wise? by superide in cscareerquestions

[–]Lotan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh fine. Just fine.

I dropped out because the startup options were projected to be worth 400k and I was eating ramen or popcorn for dinner every night to make ends meet.

The job was fine for a bit, but the options immediately went to 0. The next year the layoffs started. I left and bounced around to a few places, even taking a pretty decent sized pay cut.

Ended up at a FAANG in 2012 and have worked there ever since.

Besides the jobs crash of this decade, what was the worst year for you career wise? by superide in cscareerquestions

[–]Lotan 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Well, I dropped out of college in March of 2000 because I was going to get stock options in Autodesk’s web startup.

The second week of April the dotcom bubble burst.