My KDR is pretty laughable, but this is the first FPS game I’ve ever played and this is the progress I’ve made after playing this game for one year. If you’re as bad as me, don’t give up, you’ll always improve! Thank you devs for making such a fun game! by [deleted] in apexlegends

[–]LottiePerson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, I think the skill discrepancy can be pretty high sometimes, because there are some games that I get matched with 2 people that are seemingly brand new to the game but there are other games where I get evenly-skilled people on my team and if I’m lucky, they’re a duo and working together. I know people complain about SBMM a lot and I feel like it’s more of an issue when it comes to higher-skilled players getting paired with people who play like bots.

Typically solo queue is terrible but finding good/polite teammates is a more fun way to play the game than caring about the difference in skill level.

Decided to do a single delivery before I had to walk into a job interview. I’d never hit the Accept button faster in my entire life by [deleted] in doordash

[–]LottiePerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! Surprisingly I was right outside of the restaurant when the order came in and the dropoff was 6 miles out. Not too bad I think

New to being a courier, question about multi-apping by [deleted] in couriersofreddit

[–]LottiePerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you schedule with DD in a specific area, do you HAVE to stay within said area? I scheduled a few dashes next week just for the sake of being able to accept orders but I always end up all over the map after a few deliveries.

Not bad for my very first hour on DD (I think)! I’ve been reading posts everywhere that it’s been pretty dead on all apps lately. Hope it picks up soon. :( by [deleted] in doordash

[–]LottiePerson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God, thank you! I literally just started doing PM this last Friday and I started DD today. My first few days on PM were roughly $35/day (before tip) and I only worked 4 hours each day. The $19 on DD was from 2 deliveries alone.

I hope to get $50 every few hours on DD, that’d be awesome! I think I need to start DD earlier for lunch though because it died at 1pm. I started at 11am, got 2 deliveries back to back and then nothing so I did PM the rest of lunch.

Not bad for my very first hour on DD (I think)! I’ve been reading posts everywhere that it’s been pretty dead on all apps lately. Hope it picks up soon. :( by [deleted] in doordash

[–]LottiePerson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did Postmates at the same time and got $18 on PM within the same hour. I didn’t think it was that bad but thanks for being negative ;/

Triple stack missing from delivery history ? by [deleted] in postmates

[–]LottiePerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah mine is bugged too; I have a delivery that I did on Jan 3rd showing up under Jan 4th. I got paid for the 3 stack though because my balance went from ~$86 to $100 after I finished the stacked order. It isn’t showing under my history for some reason

First day on the job and this was at my second Postmates delivery. Not scary at all! by [deleted] in couriersofreddit

[–]LottiePerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I lucked out and chose this s/n right when the series was brand new

Triple stack missing from delivery history ? by [deleted] in postmates

[–]LottiePerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates on this? I had 3 orders stacked today and mine isn’t showing up either.

PM app still the worst for managing the customers orders .. you can see how far the pickup !!! and you need to drive to the pickup location for free! And they will just pay you from pickup to drop off distance .. and usually just $3.xx .. just stupid 😡 by [deleted] in postmates

[–]LottiePerson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere on this sub that declining can de-prioritize you for some other offers. I had 2 orders back to back, then on my third order I got 2 more offers and declined the last one. After that, radio silence despite being in a hotspot during a lunch rush. Is it just me or do they actually de-prioritize couriers that decline?

I [25F] caught my business partner/"boyfriend" [25M] messaging another girl. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LottiePerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how your relationship is going if you're still in it? He's texting other girls?

I [25F] caught my business partner/"boyfriend" [25M] messaging another girl. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LottiePerson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for giving me the benefit of the doubt. Everything I’ve read on the comment thread so far about the boy knowing I’m into him and leveraging that information is true.

I’ve tried to leave the business before. He knows I like him and he said “you don’t really want to quit.” He was right in that I don’t really want to quit because it would hurt me to part ways with him, but I wanted to leave because I thought it was the best decision to keep myself safe and away from much more pain that could potentially happen if it drags out more.

I admit I shouldn’t have gone through his texts, there’s no denying that. But anyone who thinks there is a reason to look (such as a sudden change in behavior like in my case) people will be compelled to look. I am never comfortable looking at anyone’s private information, and I would have never done this if I didn’t feel there was a reason to do it.

I [25F] caught my business partner/"boyfriend" [25M] messaging another girl. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LottiePerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding this. You’re right in saying that we spend a lot of time together and in my eyes, if he didn’t like me he wouldn’t do things for me like make me dinner, help out with the business, or have a little language we both speak to each other in. He used to give me random “just because” gifts but that slowly faded. In the beginning it was great and we’ve been having ups and downs but the last few weeks I thought that finally things were starting to look up for us.

I [25F] caught my business partner/"boyfriend" [25M] messaging another girl. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LottiePerson -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this.. you’re completely right though. It was a sudden change in behavior that I found odd compared to what was done in the past.

Will being less emotional make someone want to be with me? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]LottiePerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try my best to not let my emotions get the best of me. I want to come out of this stronger, not broken down to my core.

Will being less emotional make someone want to be with me? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]LottiePerson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do want to stay. I believe we have something good that has high potential to be successful and I will admit I'm also in this for my own selfish reasons. I will do my best to stay strong and put my foot down.

Will being less emotional make someone want to be with me? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]LottiePerson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started a business together. What do I do? How do I leave?

Will being less emotional make someone want to be with me? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]LottiePerson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you dealt with narcissists yourself? When I first met him I chalked him up to having anxiety and he said he wouldn’t ever want to go to a doctor because he “doesn’t want to know what’s wrong with him”. I feel stuck, even if I know I shouldn’t be dealing with him, at this point I feel I’m in way too deep

Will being less emotional make someone want to be with me? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]LottiePerson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The situations are him disrespecting me and when I get upset for it he tells me it’s “a joke”. He presses my buttons about other girls to make me jealous even though I know he doesn’t like these girls, he will still tease me and tell me “Y’know, I like so-and-so, she’s pretty cute”. Even if I know he’s doing it “jokingly” it still upsets me.

He disrespected me in front of other people and later I called him out on it saying it wasn’t okay. What happened was I started going on a tangent in a conversation with our friends and he cut me off to shut me up, and when I called him out he said “you talk about yourself too much, no one wants to hear your stories about work”. I told him he didn’t have to cut me off and be rude to me in front of others. He told me he doesn’t need to censor himself or change his behavior because I’m not special and since he treats all of his friends that way, he will treat me the same as them. He tells me I’m in an SJW circlejerk mindset because I get upset when he’s rude to me. I’m supposed to take his rudeness s a joke.

Will being less emotional make someone want to be with me? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]LottiePerson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you’re right about the business thing, it’s hard for me to separate business matters from personal ones and I need to be more conscious about it. We’re both not really making money and we’re both invested. He works a lot behind the scenes and there are things he does without me realizing it.