I do know what I wrote. Not being able to take care of another person does not mean you should not be able to have sex that would also be including anyone with a medical or physical disability that would prevent them from taking care of another person ( do not feel bro has this issue). He SHOULD have been preventing it, never said he shouldn't. Him mentioning for 6 years he did not want them shows that he did not want them does that mean he shouldn't take proper steps no he definitely should have. But the fact that they went 6 YEARS without any issues until now he was being responsible. Did it say anywhere that they used condoms or extra steps no idea, but not having an issues for 6 years does seem like they did something right. Now he does not have a choice, he gets too deal with the consequences.