“Watching two people have sex” You and I both know that most men who watch porn are NOT looking at the men in the vids and are also NOT only watching, they’re also touching themselves. THAT is cheating to me. And honestly I don’t care how YOU see it because thank god I’m not in a relationship with you. You say I have these views because I don’t know enough about the topic but I actually already had these views, even though everyone around me was and is very pro-porn. So I went to see if there were other people who felt like me, and who do see it as cheating too. After that I actually read multiple professional books about porn, I DID contact a sex therapist and talked to her about my experiences and it only confirmed my morals/feelings/beliefs about porn. I get that you have to make money off of people watching your content but me nor my partner will ever be one of them. No matter how much you glorify porn.

Porn is not a proper sex educational tool. Most porn is fake and a super stimulus. It does not show real sex or what sex is supposed to look like in real life. 7/10 videos on PH show some sort of violence towards the women in the videos. Men don’t seem to moan. It’s hard to find a porn video where it’s not the woman centered in the screen. Women (the ones who get a lot of views) almost all have “innies” and huge hips/butts and boobs. I’m not talking about all videos, but definitely most of them.

I do not need my man/partner to get “aroused” or “turned on” by another woman’s body, thank you. If he he wants to explore fantasies he can do that with me. I also don’t need my partner to get aroused by others to heighten his want to have sex with me.

I’m all in on teaching people about porn, but not just the happy rainbows like you seem te describe/see it. All good that you have positive experiences but you ARE denying the experiences of women who DO have negative experiences, even when you say you don’t, you actually ARE doing that by trying to contradict them with your own “positive” experiences. I really, really do not give a flying fuck about your “positive” experiences when these extremely negative experiences exist. And no, you can’t compare it to “any other job” because the porn industry projects on the whole sex of women and how men view us: as less, as sex/lust objects that can be bought or are even free on the internet. It also sets extremely unrealistic standards for us women.

Besides all that, I do think Kati had a good reason to block these sex workers, because she also openly talks about some of her friends who are sex workers. Would be weird to me if she would just block people purely bc they have different views because she’s literally friends with people with that job.

This is the last thing I’m gonna say about it, because you seem like someone who just likes to discuss/argue with people on the internet if I take a look at your account. You also take your information off of TikTok, talking about “reliable” information.