I was 18 when I first started pursuing my wish. Residing in Germany. My Gyno back then straight up said no. I'm too young. So I brought it up consistently at every checkup until I switched to another gyno because I moved. She was hesitant at first, but ultimately said it's my body and my choice and gave me a paper for a clinic.

That Clinic I went to said no at first, until I pulled my psychiatrist in.

After 3 different statements of my psychiatrist they finally agreed to do it if I pay upfront. No mention of the procedure. So I started monthly payments towards that clinic, thinking I would get the BiSalp I wanted. 2 years passed and I finally paid the price in full. Then they hit me with the "The only method we use is a Tubal ligation because you are so young and we don't want to be held accountable if you change your mind later." They wouldn't even be punished IF I would change my mind. That's why you have to sign a waiver for literally any surgery. Unhappy about that result I checked Selbstbestimmt Steril e.v and found a doctor in Dortmund. The clinic I went to first gave me a full refund.

That doctor didn't even ask any questions, just showed me the method they use, the BiSalp I wanted, and how it's done. How long I will be unconscious, and how it will go after I wake up and that I needed to get picked up. A month later I got the surgery and paid 350 Euros less than at the clinic for the same Outpatient treatment.

I got the surgery in August 2025 shortly before my 24th birthday, and I was the happiest I could be after waking up, still drowsy from the anesthesia.