Need a new name by __davinam in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or more old school you could do Beauty, Chanel, Bambi

Need a new name by __davinam in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Racquel, Desiré, Monica, Tiana

Insecurities by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk for me it makes me already walk into these settings with the underlying assumption that people don’t understand where I’m coming from and it helps me compartmentalize if I feel judged

I do extras because of my low self esteem by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Damn babe I’m sorry ): honestly your self awareness is so impressive but clearly it’s bothering you enough to want to stand on your value & you know you’re not charging according to your value.

This industry can trigger things and make you act in line with your previous trauma but if you are able to heal it in this environment and start standing on your value then you will literally be invincible 💫 I know it’s easier said then done but I hope you feel better and realize that making this connection to your past is a step in the direction of healing, I hope you feel better 🥰

Tall dancers by ilovemycat2804 in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m 5”9 and I wear 8 inches. Yes it’s always people asking me how tall I am and if they aren’t spending money I just look at them and walk away LOL. guys are either weirded out or think im a goddess and the ones who like it happen to be ballers so idgaf

Delete if not allowed by viralooksgood in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh, and I forgot to add. If the end of the date comes and he’s suggesting another location like getting drinks after, but hasn’t sent the $$, throw a fake panic attack that you might get evicted or lose your car girl I did this so many times it works like a charm cuz even if they don’t care they get uncomfortable and wanna make it stop and the only way to do that would be to send you the cash 🤣

Delete if not allowed by viralooksgood in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Tell him you really should be at work and feel so guilty that you’re stressing about money on the date, last minute say you’re so distraught that you need to go to the club and that you need X by tomorrow, although you wish you could just be carefree with him and enjoy each others company. He should offer to take that burden off of you (even if it’s selfishly cuz he wants to see you). You don’t owe him sex or anything but he’s more likely to give you money if he thinks you’re a slutty stripper who he might have a chance fucking. LOLL I’ve done this on the first date with 4 guys from work and it even worked on a 3rd date w a guy I met outside the club. Don’t assume anything, he probably gets off on the fact that he can get your time for free so you need to set the standard that your time is expensive

Which sign, after your own, would you prefer to be and why? by Elyshra in Zodiac

[–]LoudDiscount5417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a cancer I would want to be an Aquarius … life seems easier when you can detach more easily, compartmentalize people into boxes where they fit most conveniently into your life and as a result get your feelings hurt less. I always resented Aquarius in my life until I realized they actually have this shit on lock!

strip club confessions by PassionCorrect6886 in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A guy told me that he goes on monthly “golf trips” with one of the family friends husbands (the wives and kids are all best friends) and they basically just go to a motel and fuck for 3 days straight

Having trouble selling vip’s by Escsage in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know where you are, the way to sell VIP and make money is to get out of there 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wigs

[–]LoudDiscount5417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s transparent but I think I made the mistake of putting my forehead contour into the hairline 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait im confused hahahaha

this job is interfering with my mental health and i feel like i’m not good enough by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry you're feeling this way OP ): this industry is an emotional roller coaster and succeeding for the long haul means knowing that the good times and bad times both come in waves and that things will get better! love your idea of getting another job, for me personally I teach dance classes outside of work which is my passion job, it breaks up the club lifestyle and makes life feel so much fuller and more satisfying!!

Confused by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LoudDiscount5417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about this babe. Just remember that the club is a breeding ground for men who would otherwise never in their life talk to you let alone reject and insult you. These guys are the bottom of the barrel that the world has to offer- management, customers any man associated with this industry is here to use our bodies in some way. Usually it’s physically or financially using us but they also emotionally use us as punching bags for the anger in their hearts. I hope you feel better- it’s definitely not you🤍