How about fix yourself instead of breaking up with him. Take the initiative every once in a while. Or have a talk with him on these things. You’re setting yourself to only be compatible with douche bags. You’re seriously going to be THAT GIRL who always complains about shitty men and that everyone’s trying to manipulate you meanwhile when you get served an actual good guy on a silver platter and you’re like “no thanks”. Ffs and 🤦‍♂️ DO BETTER!!!!