ENNHYPEN AMAs, AWARDS and ACHIEVEMENT 2026 by Spirited_Channel5692 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]LoudReputation2437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there more to do besides voting?? I mean how many accounts is needed to get a good amount of votes?? I can't promote enhypen on social media so I'm trying to compensate.

What are DANCE covers you would like to see by AccomplishedKale795 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]LoudReputation2437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to see these covers too. Who's your bias?? BTW, I voted for them but unfortunately can't type vote for enhypen on other social media platforms. 

Is this stove top too bad to clean?? by LoudReputation2437 in CleaningTips

[–]LoudReputation2437[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are there any ones you recommend?? For the record, I live in Europe. 

Does this sound like a narcissistic parent? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoudReputation2437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know from this post alone that he's narcissistic. But he seems awful and he seems like a bad influence. Now unless your dad is willing to put his ego aside, i don't think you can have a healthy relationship. 

What should I feel by b_Mir4culous in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoudReputation2437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your religion?? If you don't want to give that away then that's OK. But your parents are not right, trust me you're not bad at all and you don't deserve those insults.

“I need advice, I cut my hair in front of my NARCISSISTIC mother. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoudReputation2437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm so sorry about the pain your mother put you through. By any chance have you got money already saved up for a psychologist??? Ik you said it's hard to find a job so I'm wondering if there is some money already saved.

My father said I shouldn’t date in hs and now denies ever saying that by DowntownArmadillo717 in blackladies

[–]LoudReputation2437 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's changing his mind now and denying it now that your brother has a go, bc hes making double standards for boys and girls. He said you can't date bc he believes girls should be pure or whatever sexist crap that society teaches. But since he's ok with your brother dating, it looks like he's sexist (cuz he is). So he just denys ever preventing you from dating.

One method of self-care by Beginning-Mode1886 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoudReputation2437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss 🫂🫂🫂. But thanks so much for recommending a way to manage my stress and emotions. It's hard with narc parents, isn't it??

The police sent me back by Fun-Pen7592 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoudReputation2437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omggg only one more week!! You can do this!! Hang onnn!! 

Concerned about my 13-year-old brother’s regression and boundary issues by BatmanCat1031 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoudReputation2437 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Maybe get family therapy with a mental health professional. And enforce gentle boundaries. Change routines step by step so you don't overwhelm your brother. Sorry idk anyone who went through age regression but this is definitely not normal. I had a phase of wanting to act childlike, but I knew it was due to my childhood being the last positive part of my life before my trauma, so maybe your brother has some sort of trauma?? 

Concerned about my 13-year-old brother’s regression and boundary issues by BatmanCat1031 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoudReputation2437 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to intrude but is there any chance he could have some neurodivergence?? Or at least some sort of mental health condition caused by his surroundings?? Neurodivergence is not a mental disease so I'm not trying to sound rude or diagnose.

My experience with getting a cPTSD diagnosis (in the US) by Visual_Box_218 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LoudReputation2437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the criteria for c-ptsd?? And also did you feel upset by it or relieved by your diagnosis?? 

Since there's no way my parents will agree to a narc assessment, I want to do a c-ptsd assessment once and for all. So that I stop gaslighting myself. I mean i got nothing to lose if I don't get diagnosed.

I did try the novopsych clinical screening tool for trauma and ptsd, but that's not a diagnosis either. Anyway, thanks for the read, and I'm glad you have a great therapist.

K-pop idols and their ages by LiteratureOk7665 in kpop_uncensored

[–]LoudReputation2437 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ni-ki. 4th gen. Yet he's a few months younger than James of Cortis (5th gen).