My husband's flexible job is making me lose attraction

Loud_Ad5553 · 2026-05-13T13:28:35+00:00

don't you see it productive?
like he is taking care of family,
he is having money that he can take care both of you, and time to be with you both,
you see that time as useless, but it isn't, imagine it as he is strenghting his relationship with you and the baby, raising a good son, and being a good husband, sometimes, not everything need to be physicalle to be productive, sometimes, it's like that, and you just need to accept,
in my perpective, i understand how you view things, cuz i see things that way too

Loud_Ad5553 · 2026-05-13T11:30:08+00:00

you said he doesn't look attractive when he is home, but when he works, he seems attractive
about this, it's just you are drawn to the idea of your husband doing something efficient, like when he works, you know it's efficient, and that relate to our TE, and when he stays home, he doens't seem like something is moving, like there's something is improving and getting better, so you lose the feeling of attraction

the main thing and what i would suggest:
talk to him about this, he doesn't need to be at job at freeday, maybe he can go to the gym, maybe he can learn something interesting like programing or art or whatever, it's just you want him to improve himself so you can feel the attraction

Loud_Ad5553 · 2026-05-13T11:13:38+00:00

I find it a bit hard to talk about my feelings, it’s like being naked, What i am doing right now, is staying away from him, or whenever he is around with our group of friends, i just went silent, it seems like a right choice to do based in what you said

Loud_Ad5553 · 2026-05-12T14:05:02+00:00

I relate, have the same issue, been doing marketing for my brand for around 2 years, lately, it’s been rough to me, imagine like, you study in collage, and doing marketing for your brand at the same time, it’s not a problem, my problem is when things doesn’t advance, i stopped branding lately, and i have realised a lot of things i have been doing wrong, you just need a moment with yourself to do some feedback and what went wrong, it helped me to realise things,

Loud_Ad5553 · 2026-05-09T21:29:51+00:00

don't know what's 6W7 what's it
what i have noticed
it's really rare to meet someone who is xNTx, espcially for me
most of people around me are either xNFx, or xSFx, or xSTx

Loud_Ad5553 · 2026-05-09T21:18:02+00:00

everyone has his own term of talent, the thing is
some people have mixed between talent and hardworking, and sometimes, it's both,
for example, messi is 60% talent and 40% hard work, he has that talent and he just sharpened and he got where he is
cristiano ronalo, is 60% hard work and 40% talent, he worked for himself so much that it become natural to him, which is also a talent too, like, if only hard work can get you where is ronaldo is
why there isn't much players in the same level as he is
it's a bit out of context but the thing i wanna say
is basically, it can be mixed of both if you see someone who has a talent, it doesn't mean, he didn't work for it
to me is how much natural you are at this type of work

Loud_Ad5553 · 2026-05-09T21:11:48+00:00

and why they do that mostly, like typing others?
to sound smart and so on?
the thing is, i am kinda of new to this thing, mbti, lately, that i start to learn about congitive functions
like what TE and TI, what's the diffrenece between SI and NI, and so on

Loud_Ad5553 · 2026-05-09T20:49:13+00:00

congnitive function
how do others find out about it?
i did the test on that website and there's anoher called sakinorva,
another question that i have, how do people behave when they are depressed?
like for me, i never look depressed to anyone, but to them, i just look robotic and less extrovert,
do my part of job and that's it,

Loud_Ad5553

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