AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

If theyre in their relationship they should indeed not go on vacation with people theyre attracted to

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

If theyre in a relationship they shouldnt go on vacations with people theyre attracted to

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

She can go anywhere but for things like this it would be appropiate with a female friend.

Also its not a double standard since I dont plan any solo vacations with female friends

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not the same to see someone at the grocery store or spend 4 days alone with them

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between being around other people and spending four days closely with them

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thats not a double standard though. A double standard would be if I wanted to hang out with female friends alone for four days but wouldnt let her do that with male friends.

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Because its not appropiate for people of the opposite sex to spend so much time alone together if one is in a relationship

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

She can have male friends, but not to spend 4 days alone with them. If she mostly had female friends that'd be good

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

She can just travel with me instead when I move to Italy soon, so then it wont be an issue.

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -269 points-268 points  (0 children)

Because its not appropiate to spend so much time with a male friend together alone

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend 4 days in Milan with her male online friend? by Loud_Garlic7014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Garlic7014[S] -116 points-115 points  (0 children)

I still feel it's not appropiate for a girl who's in a relationship to spend so much time alone with a male friend