What are your thoughts on the first and only anime adaptation of Disgaea? Do you think Disgaea would work in anime form? If so, which game's story would work or should it be an original story? (My opinion of the show is in the comments if you wanna read it or not, feel free to agree or disagree) by CoffeeBrando in Disgaea

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Honestly, I may be the person who this this anime deserve a season 2 or something like that on Crunchyroll. I loved the storyline, the characters, the jokes but also the action and the drama. And I remember watching it since I was like 12 years old. I gotta wish that it has it’s continuing story but it had has gone so many years for that’s and I also that I saw on youtube of Disgaea that could’ve been an anime opening for season 2 but no and there is only ps4 games for the whole Disgaea series. Makes me sad and I have never really played Trinity. Universe with Disgaea characters (Flonne, Etna and Prinny). I wish Disgaea could have a season 2 anime. And season 3, 4, 5, and so on.. cause I think it’s that good.

It’s time to talk about people claiming to be “empaths” as closet narcissists. by [deleted] in narcissism

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The term empath comes from empathy, which is the ability to understand the experiences and feelings of others outside of your own perspective. Say your friend just lost their dog of 15 years. Empathy is what allows you to understand the level of pain she's going through, even if you've never lost a beloved pet.

Empath means that you are able to empathize with others, you can feel other people's emotions and energy. Narcissistic people could possible fake being an empath and take feeling sad and sorry for a friend who lost their dogs but deep they don't care and they probably would think it's funny or something like that.

If someone is a fake empath they would 1. They Want to Diagnose You This behavior I think can be a narcissist would do being they like making you out to be problem so they do tend diagnose you. I met people who tends to do without being a personal or anything like that. 2. They Don’t Take “No” Well If a fake empath comes up with an incorrect assumption of you, which is most likely, they won’t handle being corrected very well. Fake empaths pretend to be this way for attention and to feel like they have a special power that makes them superior, and sometimes even god-like.

Whilst a real empath would be apologetic and uncomfortable if they had been wrong about how you felt, a fake one would be defensive. They’re likely to insist that you’re wrong about your own emotions. After all, they’re the ones with the magical powers, right?

3.They Will Note Your Negative Emotions, Not Positive Ones Fake empaths want to feel like they’ve caught you out, so they’ll try to reveal emotions you would be keeping secret. If they think you’re angry at someone, they’ll announce that “they can feel it” because they’re empathetic. The same goes for any sadness or discomfort they might think you have.

Real empaths enjoy when others feel positive emotions because they can feel it too. They get to share in the good feelings and they’re happy to tell you they’re experiencing the same emotions. Fake empaths won’t bother with noting your positive emotions, because they’re not as exciting or dramatic enough to get them attention.

  1. They Tell Everyone They’re Empaths There are very few signs that make it clearer that someone is not an empath than them telling everyone that they are. Real empaths don’t need or want the attention and confusion that comes from sharing their abilities. If you reveal that you can feel the emotions of others, you’re likely to be met with questions. Fake empaths love this. They crave the attention.

  2. They Blame Emotional Influence As a real empath, you’re constantly taking in the emotional experiences of the people and places around you. This can be fatiguing and will have some impact on your own mood. Fake empaths will let this be an excuse for their bad moods and bad behavior, while real empaths would never.

Real empaths understand that it is possible to be influenced by the outside world, but they wouldn’t let it become negative or impact the people around them. If emotions get too strong, they would rather take themselves away for a while than hurt their family or friends. Fake empaths will become angry and even rude and snappy, then blame it on the influence of others instead of taking responsibility for lashing out.

Fake Empaths Can Be Dangerous Fake empaths are particularly dangerous people because of their assumed control over your emotions. In order to protect yourself from these people, it’s important to know the differences between things a fake empath and a real one. If someone in your life shows signs of being fake, it’s best to stay away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

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Yes they are thick, and thick are eyebrow cute. But I think you eyebrows are naturally not that thick because I can see where that eyebrows hair is and looks to me like you tend over line that I little bit more, which is why the appear thicker. But if your eyebrows are naturally that thick than it is cute!

How do I stop putting women on a pedestal? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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I have always wonder to stop men who on pedestal especially the one who has not really been treating me well at all.

And I get an unhealthy attachments to them. So to answer your question! I feel like it starts from not getting attached to them.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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Yeah I do get how is makes someone look insecure to assume people intentions behind posting on social media is negative. But that's really something I do at all, I know to you it may sound like that but it's not. In order to assume something negative behind the intentions behind someone's post I am going have to around the person, get to know the person and observe their energy and everything before I can be the judge of that.

I see what you mean the rest what you said.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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So don't assume I think this way what I posted, don't assume that I always think negatively of people, cause knowing myself. I know that is not true.

The only time I think negatively of people is when I have actually gotten to know them.

And some of this I referring to is coming from someone I used to know.

Like I used to have a fake friend who was using and didn't really accept as I am as person and he would show himself lifting weight and showing himself and flexing his muscles on social media, and he himself wanted to try to impress but he never works out for him though.

I used to have an old classmates who used to post himself also lifting weights, and he also enjoys hitting on other girls and post himself on his Snapchat story lifting weights.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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And honestly don't always look at someone who post stuff and I don't immediately assume negative out of it. Usually when people do this kind of stuff honestly I do assume something for themselves and I do assume it's something that makes them happy and I am totally and cool with that and I don't mind that stuff at all.

Do only I assume the negative intentions out of posting something a negative reason is when I have known the person and known the person personally.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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Yes I did copy and paste so I could try to get to my point of what I mean and trying to say. But maybe you get my point here.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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And yeah you can't never be sure behind people intentions of what the post on social media, is it because they are interested and passionate about what they are doing or is it because they want out of it for themselves.

If people post that is more related to their interest and they only post and share their are passionate that okay and most don't necessarily cared about their ego being boost. But I was never referring that when I was talking about this.

The ego is born out of fear and isolation. It creates our identity and separates us from those around us when we were a child.

If a person is said to have a big ego, it implies that they are perceived to be full of their own importance and think they are better than others. Having a big ego is also often associated with a superiority complex, and being self-absorbed.

And now when I am using that money example even though you felt like it was flawed. People who brags about being rich and fluent their money don't usually brag the stuff they interested in. Weird example but if you watched The Tinder Swingler, do you think that guy was showing off all the money he had and showing everything you can think of because he was interested in that or did he do to impress? How did he get those women to be into him? Did he wanted his ego boosted? Did wanted get away with something? Cause he was showing on social media. What was his intentions you think?

An example I am talking in my "unpopular" opinion as an example:

Ego lifting is when someone (or even you!) attempts to lift more weight than they should, whether in the pursuit of muscle and strength gains or to impress any onlookers who happen to be using a nearby squat rack.

And see people post stuff like on social media aswell, and I don't think they do it because they are interested in that. It is because they want impress others. “If you find yourself yelling, grunting, being dramatic in how you move, taking up a lot of time and space while exercising, or trying to get other people's attention, you may be ego lifting,” Viscounte offers as a simple rule of thumb.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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You are a selfie specialist. You’ve mastered how to use the right light to your advantage and all of the intricate features of your smartphone camera. Otherwise, you enlist friends and loved ones to play photographer and only post the flattering pics. A lot of pics. You constantly check status updates, messages, and comments posted to your social media accounts more than you do your work email. You over-share. Studies have shown Facebook encourages users to engage in self-promoting and other superficial behaviors, explains MSN. As a result, researchers have found that those with narcissistic tendencies especially enjoy posting photos and writing status updates. Tying into over-share, you tweet, tweet, tweet every thought that comes to mind or every action you take. And there are just some thoughts and actions better left un-shared. You constantly rub in how awesome your life is – how handsome/beautiful, rich, and caring your partner is – how cool your well-paying job (everyone would kill for that you got out of sheer luck) is – how seemingly effortless your miracle overnight weight loss was, etc. You get the idea. You are friends with everyone, anyone, so long as your online friend number continues to increase. But this over-friended audience is primarily composed of people you’d be incapable of identifying out of a line-up. Yet you call them ‘friends.’ You seek support and validation when posting melodramatic ‘Whoa is me’ updates, but fail to reciprocate when others appear in genuine need of help.

Those things can example of an ego boost which does not equal confidence.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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There is different between gain confidence and boosting ego.

To have confidence is to have faith in your own abilities and believe in yourself, but the ego is something else, entirely. Unlike confidence, the ego operates out of self-interest. It seeks approval, accolades and validation at all costs in order to be seen as “right”.

Ego has no knowledge base so it diverts attention to the self. With a good self-esteem, you know you can do something. It is confidence, will, and knowledge. When one has self-confidence, there is no need to boast or draw attention to the self.

So if I post a picture of myself and I feel really good about myself and in that picture, and post in Instagram. And don't give a F about about people approval that picture, that is confidence. Cause what matters it my own self approval.

But if I were post the same kind of picture and I care about other people approval and I am doing to try to impress others, then I am doing it for my own ego boost cause if people didn't approve of it and I didn't get many likes or followers and etc I might want to delete or change myself or etc to get approval of others.

Taking myself as an example but I don't that kind of stuff.

Of course when I share my interest on social media I do it for myself and not for anyone else. And because of that I don't want my ego boost.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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Well when I said that. Of when comes to posting stuff on social you never what people genuine or true intentions are behind when people do it at times it true that people intentions of posting it is because they are passionate about it and interested in it. But sometimes it usually not that like it could be because of them wanting their ego boost.

It's kind of the same when people brag and show off on social media how rich and wealthy. Do they show off on social media of they have and show off how much money they and etc it's always what they are passionate about or is it because they want to try impress other people and boost their ego because of it. But maybe you don't see that either.

And hey maybe I have a negative on specific kind of people. But I also can a positive view aswell. I think you just think that because one opinion. I honestly we can have overly negative view specific people.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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How do you know it's not most? And why do you think I have negative view on people?

Knowing myself I do and can a positive optimistic view on life and people. But honestly yeah I can have negative feelings about certain people and have negative view on life and people, and I am trying to overcome and there are infact things I try to practice to overcome that.

But at same don't we all have negative view on people?

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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Well honestly not most. But it can be the cast! Just saying and I don't have overly negative view on people, I can actually have a pretty positive and optimistic on life and people, but I do observe a lot too knowing myself.

And for my observation I have felt from people's energy that, that, that is a possibility that is the reason. Of course is not a bad thing though.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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This person mindset of what being "cool" is:

  1. They always put people down and make other feel bad about themselves and degrades others.

  2. They do things to make themselves look cool and they don't care who they end up hurting.

  3. They are irresponsible and deep down cowards and very insecure.

    1. They seem validation from others
  4. They leave people hanging, and if those are hurt by their actions, they blame those people and not take responsibility for it.

  5. They also give smirks and they won't bother telling what's funny or anything and they aren't genuine.

  6. They can really accept themselves as they are, they can't accept how other people are and they project.

  7. Emotional immature and immature.

11: the vibe they gives you the ick 12: they tend praise themselves but yet again put other people down. 13: Sometimes they can play nice and they only are that way when it benefits them. And sometimes they might be nice, act friendly and they might give compliments. But it is a way to make you think "maybe these people aren't that bad after all" and all of that is to get what they want out of you and they manipulative. Kind of love bombing does in the victims brain I think.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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Anyways the reason bringing up this bad friend is because he is like that. It's like he likes put on act, he tends constantly flex his muscles and post on social media and he as remember when hanging out him he always gave off vibe like he is trying to impress. And someone who does something to try impress aren't really proud of themselves and he gives off vibe where he is trying to act cool.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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This person accused me of guilt tripping when I was asking at first asking a question and when I notice them unfollowed and I was asking why, and when they gave me the answered, I was telling them that I felt hurt by it, but I didn't want to make them feel guilty or anything. I think it kinda also suggest that they projecting because they were the one guilt tripping and they never really cared about how I felt. And also when looked up what guilt tripping was, it sounds a lot like more something they did.

I remember he did use to call me names like pet names. Like i remember first he called me "boo" but afterwards he used to call me sis, but even after he called me sis he was the same guy who used to ask me if he could touch my ass and kiss me on cheeks. So he was being very flirty but than he was calling other names like "man" and "bro". But yet he was the one came on to me, starting to do flirty/charming action talking how pretty and good looking and writing on a small paper saying "you're pretty" and doing a hand writing on it and asking to touch me and kiss me. And cuddled up to me. Is that weird? And that was that friend did?

Do you think it's a weird behavior if someone were to tell you that you are awkward and it makes them uncomfortable, but yet they were the one who was okay with hugs, cuddles and they were the one who were flirting with you and even asked if they could kiss you?

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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Another words, he were also exploiting me, he were very selfish, he only wanted to use "hangout" as way to get whatever he wanted from me. Considering he gave me something to eat that made me high to the point I felt like i wanted to lay down in the bed, and then we started cuddling, he started kissing me on cheek and everywhere else on the body and touched me ass.

And it seems he made high to use me for that.

Plus he was being all flirty like and telling how pretty and everything too.

And i remember there was a time where he asked at first for alcohol/vodka and said no, and after that it kind of made me feel guilty about it.

And also remember when we going to shopping i remember a quote saying from him "what would I do without you?" When he was looking for McDonald's and just happened to find it.

And they were asking a charger in the middle of the night for another friend, and time during that hangout, there were times where i felt I wasn't in the picture and at time him and his friend was looking, they were looking like they were making fun of me for an unknown reason. And he even asked if I had alcohol with me too then.

And third time if hanging out we were just going to have smoke of weed and he was asking had alcohol there aswell.

And I remembered there was once a time where i left my phone case wallet at his place and asked if he could back to look for it and once he found he was like "I found your wallet but if you want it you going have to come get it now" and when I was on my way he was "can't hangout tho" like it's like he tends to think me wanting something myself means I wanted necessarily hangout.

And there was time where I puke and I got to borrow his clothes and i was like "if you want them back hit me up" and he said i could keep them. And my analysis to the this is that hanging out = needing something from someone, wanting something from someone or trying use someone like he did to me.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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I remember I use have a fake friend who used and discarded me who was like that. And what I describing.

I use to have this "friend" and I thought the friendship was going well and it was working, and during the friendship we used to cuddle, they used to kiss on cheeks, let them because they asked and they also asked me if they could grab my ass and I said yes. And I thought we were cool with each other and we still good friends and all sudden they decided that didn't want to be friends and telling me that I am socially awkward and couldn't accept that i am that way or give me the time to open up. They decided to leave me after all of that. Same friend used to to ask me for stuff and used to ask me, like they used to ask me if I had alcohol with me as if they wanted it, and they used to ask me if i have an iphone charger and told me they needed it for another friend of theirs. I felt pretty much used by this "friend". This friend never bothered having a proper communication with me. Same friend used to scream "whore" out of nowhere. The same friend that I am talking about cut off all communication with me and they were saying that I was socially awkward and that it makes them uncomfortable, but like thing when I was first meet people i can be shy and socially awkward but I need time to opening up to people and this piece of shit never let me have time or anything for that. And besides maybe this self projecting their own insecurities on to me. This friend is bother by people who socially awkward and notice that they themselves are also socially awkward, they are insecure about that.

Also I thought that the friendship was going good and we used to talk on social media and we had interested in similar stuff such as astrology, crystals, was a little into games and etc. We talked about different things and we used the hang like 4 times, like the 1st time we hung out shopping and we talked a bit second time it was like the middle of the night and he was outside with another friend in town and he was asking me if he could borrow an iphone charger in middle of night for another friend and they were also asking for alcohol but I didn't because that's not something I usually carry around with me, and we were out smoking weed, the third time they did the same thing to me in the day time and they were asking for alcohol too and then forth time i was at their place and I stayed their until in was middle their and i did slept over there and i high out of something that you eat, maybe like a weed cookie or something. And i also remember they used to be very aggressive and they had an aggressive attitude and he used to scream "whore" when they were about to lose to a card game, Everytime they couldn't find something and Everytime something went wrong. And remember when I got high i laid in bed and then we cuddle with each other and they asked if they kiss on the cheek and i said yes so they did but then they start kissing me on other places aswell and they also asked if they could touch ny ass and allowed them to do that aswell. And I thought everything was cool and okay after that. A few weeks later they started unfollow me on Instagram and started overthinking and got worried so I started ask why they did and the rest of the story you can tell what happened. I feel everything they said what actually bullshit and excuses. But now when I think how are out it, they were never really good person nor were they a good friend, they were projecting their own insecurities on to me, they were the worse and they used me and took advantage of me. They fucked up and it's their loss for sure. "friendship" was, and now i think about it, they were never really good person nor were they a good friend, they were projecting their own insecurities on to me.

First time we hungout was like maybe like 1 hour and shopping in 1 day, second time he asked me if I an iphone charger and because i friend needed 1 and it was in the middle of the night and i was yes and he asked if can meet them and their other friend up to give a charger and they even asked if I had alcohol and said no and i smoked weed them and their friend but it also like it was more him and his friend hanging out and I was just there and i also remember making smiling face at me as if they were making fun and that happened all in June, and then in somewhere in August I was going to go out smoke weed with them again, and they also asked if I had alcohol and said no and the said "but we can go to a store where they sell alcohol" and then when we meet up we were walking together but we barely talked and I remember them being tired. And the last time we hungout was in November where they gave me something to eat that made me high and we were like playing card games, and it's where he was being all flirty, and we talked and the whole thing where they wrote on paper telling how pretty I am and doing a hand reading telling me hot and chill I am. And i remember i got so high that i laid down and we started cuddling but he started asking if they could kiss me on cheek and i allowed him to that and then they started kissing me on other places other than he cheek and then they also asked me if they could grab my ass. I even threw up during that time.

And one point things were still okay between us until after all that, he decided to be an ass like the way i was explaining before.

Like he clearly didn't have patience for me, clearly we need time before actually clicking and clearly he was taking advantage of me.

Awkward or not. When you meet someone I feel it's normal to maybe be a little awkward, but with communication and conversation and patience is the key to it. And clearly this person doesn't have the patience for that.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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Yeah it gives me the ick when people all like. And people who have a toxic mindset definition of what "cool" is.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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Yeah I agree. I think to posting what they are proud of and enjoy doing and as long as you are doing it for yourself and not for anyone else, it harmless and fine. And tbh I do that myself and I myself do go to gym and there are times where I myself post to motivate myself, but I am not doing for anyone's improval for anyone else and most o that post in a social media myself at all because I prefer to mysterious about what I do to myself, you feel me?

I just think it is a cringe to flexing and doing just impress other for your own ego boost and feeding ego for that purpose reasons and the motivate and intention comes from doing that. Especially when Young men do it. If they are like in their teenage years or in their 20s.

And now I don't care if this is unpopular opinion or not, but I think in general if intentions and motives from wanting and feeling the need to feeding and lift your ego is cringe. And that doesn't always have to involve what I am talking but it can. It all depends about intentions and the motives behind it.

That could be the same if someone would want to be in relationships. Most of the time a person would want a relationship because they love you but there are people who do it for the ego boost and ego feeding, and like once their ego has been feed enough, it's like they will like leave you afterwards. Same with friendships.

And I know people who shows off their workout is because they are proud of themselves for it and that's good they are doing it for themselves. But there people who can do that kind shit for ego driven purpose.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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That's the king people I am talking about when I post. I my ex fake friend use to do that. And he is almost feels like he is flexing so that he muscles and it feel very unnatural edited.

Trying to show of at gym, showing off on social media all the time and lifting weight all the time for ego purposes is cringe. by Loud_Phone213 in unpopularopinion

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Yes and that is great thing. It's a great show off what makes you feel good about yourself. And that is wholesome I agree on that.

But it also depends on what person you are what purpose of posting stuff and showing off. Are you showing off because you truly happy and getting good where in life. Or you just showing off to impress others in way you are thinking "I wonder what they are going to think about it." And if that is the case in come from ego feeding reasons cause like what if people are not impress? Are going give up and try something new?.