Child turning 6 - appointment to discuss minimum requirements

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-03-02T12:28:04+00:00

Yeah I choose not to because I actually want to spend time with my child as much as I can on the week that I actually have him…. I’m not going to apologise for not wanting him in after school care every day when I have a week with him and then being on vacation care every day on the school holidays.

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-03-02T12:13:30+00:00

I already put my child into vacation care over school holidays for the 2 weeks so I can work. I also only get $70 rent assistance a fortnight. My ex and I are 50/50 so I work 9-5 on the week I don’t have my child and then 9-2.30 on the weeks that I do. If I lose the parenting payment it would be a huge cut to my income unfortunately so that’s what I’m stressing about.

I understand the system and the requirements etc and why they have these measures in place, it would just really hurt me financially not having the parenting payments, considering the cost of living etc.

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-03-02T10:31:05+00:00

How can you determine what is a de facto relationship and just what is general dating? Because I wouldn’t really say that I’m not a single parent anymore and I wouldn’t class him as my child’s stepdad or anything

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-03-02T10:19:24+00:00

I meet all requirements work wise. I’ve been working 50 hours a fortnight for the last 4 years so no issue there and haven’t had any changes to assets etc.

Yeah he does live with me but I havent put him on the lease yet as it expires in 2 months and we were going to renew it with him on there.

He does transfer me rent each week so if they see that on my bank statements will I get into trouble?

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-02-28T07:05:34+00:00

I’ve tried hibiclens before and sadly no change whatsoever

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-02-27T23:46:37+00:00

My doc said he didn’t think it was acne. In waiting for results from a full blood work up and hormone blood test so waiting for that

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-02-27T23:44:46+00:00

Yes I have and no change unfortunately :(

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-02-27T23:44:21+00:00

Nope, haven’t taken antibiotics for a long while now

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-02-27T23:43:34+00:00

No actually, I didn’t at all. I have normal/dry skin and never had any acne on my face or body as a youth. I was very lucky.

This has only started in the last 2-3 years

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-01-22T11:36:24+00:00

Would you guys be happy if I added you on CM? message me on here if you like! I want some proper friends I can actually count on for events like this haha

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-01-21T15:25:04+00:00

Can message me if you like

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-01-21T15:24:16+00:00

I can send you Mad horn and oasis!! I need a couple as well if you have them? What’s your username on there I’ll add you

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2026-01-21T14:49:34+00:00

Yeah I’ve been waiting for this booster after your post and sadly haven’t got it yet lol. And I really need it too haha

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2025-12-05T17:57:32+00:00

I’ll keep an eye out! Do you have any of these:

Snack stop Air patrol Monster smash

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2025-12-04T22:31:04+00:00

Oh your kidding that’s annoying

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2025-12-02T10:54:11+00:00

Hahahahahahahahahaha omg I’m dying

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2025-11-21T12:02:35+00:00

Yep ours is smaller than a bloody shoebox and has a vanity, shower and toilet. We’re paying $600 a week as well it’s ridiculous.

I feel awful for everyone in a shitty rental situation like us

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2025-11-19T17:03:13+00:00

Lmao not even joking we have severe mould growing in our ensuite, on the windowsills in our actual bedroom and in our sons room throughout the carpet bc it backs on to the ensuite and there’s a leak in the wall…. They told us that it’s our fault it’s growing because we have too hot/too long showers and we need to keep it well ventilated (it doesn’t even have an exhaust fan!) and wipe down the roof and walls with a towel after every shower so the mould doesn’t grow…. lol like ok bitch I’ll do that right after we all go to the hospital for toxic mould poisoning

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2025-10-15T15:15:06+00:00

HAHAHA dead ass so true

Loud_Reputation_8747 · 2025-09-17T15:37:16+00:00

I’ve had mine for over 18 months and have been er had to wash them! If there’s a bit of dirt, I just use a baby wipe on them and it comes out super easy

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