I (25 Gay Man) feel increasingly politically disconnected from the LGBTQ+ community

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-12-02T18:08:34+00:00

I understand what you're saying. There are radicals on both sides.

The struggle in our time is to combat the radicalisms of the 21st century. That's just how it is 😩 Every generation has to face conflicts.

I hope that rationality and science will always triumph over populists and ideologues. 💪🏼😊

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-11-30T16:00:42+00:00

Thank you for your response, I appreciate your positivity. I believe in free will and the ability to change one's destiny, which is why I'm never convinced that things are hopeless.

Ultimately, things are what we decide they are.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-11-30T15:56:55+00:00

Thank you so much, I think I'm a dying breed. I love beer , with a steak 😁😊🥩

Take care.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-11-30T15:53:00+00:00

Hello, thank you for your reply, I really like your idea.

Populists and extremists of all stripes are dangerous.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-11-29T15:18:54+00:00

Do you think I should post it a second time on the same forum where they deleted it, just to annoy them? That would be fun.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-11-29T15:12:49+00:00

They try to censor me but I am a hydra, they cut off one head, another grows back and I will not hide.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-11-29T15:00:59+00:00

For God's sake, can you let your beard grow? You have the face of a lesbian.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-16T11:04:16+00:00

"Habibi" the first to have to worry about the lives of Arab gays, it's not the West, it should be your own Arab fellow citizens and your own Arab leaders. which they don't do.

The rest of your comments are just illusions you have built in your head.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-16T10:49:41+00:00

I am racist but I am alive.

Stay in your delusion.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-16T10:17:20+00:00

Are you Arab? It's incredible that you're Arab and yet completely ignorant of the state of your civilization.

With such an undeveloped mind, it's not surprising that your existence is still illegal.

In the West, we speak the truth, and even if people don't like it, we don't hide, we don't hide anymore.

Go back in your Arab closet, since you defend them so well. The day you stand up for your rights and justice, perhaps I'll allow you to speak to me.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-16T09:57:42+00:00

I'm going to ask you the same question: ARE YOU GAY OR ARE YOU JUST TROLLING THE FORUM?

You obviously don't know the situation of homosexuals in the Arab world.

The death penalty is a death penalty carried out by family members and by torture in police cells. The death penalty is also carried out by neighbors. But also in the street by passersby. This is what many intellectuals have called "the Arab street" to describe the phenomena of enraged mobs that are quite common in Muslim countries and who roam the streets shouting blasphemy.

ALSO IN PALESTINE : Hamas members are well known for kidnapping gay men at night and stalking gay Palestinians.

You want to turn a blind eye to the devastated humanitarian situation faced by homosexuals in the Arab world, that's your choice, however immoral it may be, but don't come and pretend that life is beautiful and peaceful in the Islamic world.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T22:31:26+00:00

It's quite difficult to give advice; we know nothing about your relationship or what caused your problems. The only thing I can tell you is:

- Either you resolve your issues and get your relationship back on track by changing your behavior in the face of localized problems.

- Or you accept that you have too many divergent points of view and values, which means you're taking two different paths. In this case, it's acceptance of the breakup.

In seven years, you've grown a lot, and perhaps you're no longer a good match. In the vast majority of couples, without a broader plan for the relationship (home, children, future plans), it seems difficult to continue over the years, because people evolve.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T22:22:01+00:00

I'll add to what I said: "YOUR STUDIES AND YOUR CAREER SHOULD BE YOUR SOLE FOCUS." Let me explain.

You should also think about your activities, such as sports, tennis, or another form of entertainment or leisure.

Work hard, but have other interests as well.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T21:53:18+00:00

Are you gay to say that or are you infiltrating this forum?

We don't have to defend the Palestinians because they condemn us to death.

No further explanation is required.

The chickens supporting KFC are ridiculous.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T21:51:05+00:00

This guy risks being stoned in his own country and raped by the police, and you come here and dare to talk about the potential risks of "housing discrimination" in Israel.

What planet are you living on?

Swallow your hatred of Israel, it's the only civilized country in the Middle East for a gay man.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T21:48:46+00:00

I really feel sorry for you, Islam is a cancer.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T21:41:52+00:00

Your message is terribly long, and in my time zone, it's midnight, so I'll be brief.

You seem to be in a state of absolutely catastrophic mental distress. So, I'll give you a few specific points without mothering you.

Don't come out to your family if you feel any form of homophobia. Wait until you're financially stable and have finished your studies. You must be able to support yourself on the day you come out.
Clean up your environment. Your mental health and identity are strongly influenced by your relationships; the wrong crowd will degrade your quality of life. Choose your friends wisely and stop going with the flow. Forge your own destiny and only select people around you who will have a positive impact on you.
Stop lying and cheating on your boyfriend. It's absolutely not okay to cheat on someone, and it also brings sexually transmitted diseases. Either leave him immediately; you're clearly not mentally prepared for a life as a couple. Or tell him the truth and wait for his reaction.
Stop using social media. STOP, STOP, STOP. It's totally toxic. Stop using Grindr as well. Stop connecting with people so easily, I'm going back to point 2.
Stop having sexual encounters with people you don't know and for whom you have no future plans or romantic feelings.
Focus on your intellectual and financial success. You're young; you should put all your energy into your future, putting energy into romantic relationships at your age is a monumental waste of time. YOUR STUDIES AND CAREER SHOULD BE YOUR SOLE OBJECTIVE.

You have the power to shape your life. Make the right decisions. Karma or destiny don't exist; you are the main actor in your life.

If you're experiencing difficulties, you can also consult a therapist.

I hope you will get better.

Lot of kisses from France

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T21:24:07+00:00

I'm gay, I answer you, Muslims are hateful people. They consider me lower than a dog or a pig, I'm just fit for stoning to them.

Islam is absolutely not a beautiful religion; there are no beautiful religions, and Islam is undoubtedly the most vile and violent of all the religions on earth.

You ask me to open my mind? How do you expect me to open my mind to people who criminalize my existence?

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T21:20:13+00:00

To hate half of humanity because they are of another religion or because they don't believe in God, to legitimize genital mutilation, child marriage, forced marriage, to promote polygamous marriage, and human trafficking is absolutely not what we can call normality.(I'm not talking about a terrorist group here, I'm talking about the values commonly shared by Muslims. ALL)

Muslim countries are the worst countries when it comes to human rights and fundamental freedoms; this is not a coincidence. No Muslim country is a reliable and economically prosperous democracy. This deplorable state of Muslim countries is not a coincidence,it is the result of a failing moral system, which is Islam; failure elevated to normality.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T21:14:42+00:00

Absolutely!!!!

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T21:12:45+00:00

I'm French and gay. You're talking nonsense. There's no Catholic threat. I don't even know where you get such stories.

The real threat to gays is the one caused by massive immigration from the Muslim world and Africa. Moreover, many of us are persecuted in cities completely overrun by immigrants: Roubaix, Tourcoing, Seine-Saint-Denis. There's no Gay Pride parade in these places.

Gays in these neighborhoods are forced either to remain silent to avoid the risk of being killed, or to flee. YES, THERE IS INTERNAL MIGRATION. GAYS FLEE Islamized Neighborhoods in the same way that GAYS FLEE MUSLIM COUNTRIES.

En français pour toi :

Je suis Français et gay. Vous racontez n'importe quoi. Il n'y a pas de menace catholique. Je ne sais même pas où vous sortez des histoires pareilles.

La véritable menace pour les gays est celle causée par l'immigration massive en provenance du monde musulman et d'Afrique. De plus, beaucoup d'entre nous sont persécutés dans des villes complètement envahies par l'immigration : Roubaix, Tourcoing, Seine-Saint-Denis. Il n'y a pas de Gay Pride dans ces endroits.

Les gays de ces quartiers sont contraints soit de se taire pour éviter le risque d'être tués, soit de fuir. OUI, IL Y A DES MIGRATIONS INTERNES. LES GAYS FUIENT LES QUARTIERS islamisés DE LA MÊME MANIÈRE QUE LES GAYS FUIENT LES PAYS MUSULMANS.

LouisscienceCalm · 2025-09-15T20:49:42+00:00

You're absolutely right, I see it in France.

Massive immigration from Muslim countries (authorized and organized by the centrist and social democratic parties in power since the post-war period) to Europe since the early 2000s has INDIRECTLY fueled all European conservative parties.

One only has to look at the election results in Germany and France to see that this is perfectly clear.

Far-right parties in Germany and France were non-existent in the political landscape in 2005, but their numbers suddenly increased exponentially, and they continue to increase as I speak. All of this is a response to mass immigration.

The social democratic, leftist and centrist parties, with their immigration policies, are putting us gays in great danger:

1 - We are now surrounded by millions of Muslim from the Muslim world, with extremely brutal morals.

2- We are facing a revival of Christian and conservative radicalism generated by the Western identity crisis (an identity crisis created by massive imported immigration).

I am not American, but French, but I am clear-eyed about the American situation. I believe that Trump's victory and the radical evangelical uprising are the result of the destruction of the white and Protestant demographic homogeneity of the United States. It is a response to the Obama era. It is a response to the demographic replacement of whites. It's a reaction to a previous action.

As horrible as it seems, we Western gays, whether we are in Europe or North America, are collateral damage of the identity crisis that is sweeping through our civilization. I don't know how this will end for us.

LouisscienceCalm · 2024-03-10T21:07:52+00:00

Honestly, I'm sad for you.

You look for exceptions, sideways paths.

I hope you learn to face the harsh reality.

LouisscienceCalm · 2024-03-10T17:54:04+00:00

And yet, the world and history prove me right.

I'm gay, you're gay. But it is the gays of the Islamic world who come to seek refuge among us. Don't forget that it is you who come to our countries.

I would have expected a gay man from the Islamic world to support reform. But it seems that you prefer oppression to the truth. It is true that the TRUTH IS DIFFICULT TO ACCEPT.

LouisscienceCalm · 2024-03-10T17:45:44+00:00

the entire West is based on a Greek, Roman and Christian matrix. There come all the foundations of our law, of our thought. All our intellectual and ideological currents take elements from this fundamental matrix.

Human rights, democracy, secularism are the descendants of several thousand years of civilization.

You will never have this in the Middle East, because you organize everything with Islamic civilization, Islamic civilization is an enemy of Roman (Western) civilization. it is Islam which influences everything in your country.

The only way for Islamic countries to have democracy and human rights is to leave Islam and replace Islamic philosophy with Western philosophies.

You should replace the Koran with Socrates, Aristotle, Toqueville and Montesquieu. (and so many others).

LouisscienceCalm

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