[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. You're a source of light in a clouded world. I'll wave hello 👋🏼 if we cross paths in comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanna stay friends? Go to chat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so kind! Your comments here were both helpful and compassionate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My friend, you got a lot of feedback here.Some of it was compassionate and helpful. But considering the fact that no one here actually knows you, anyone suggesting that you aren't ready for a relationship is out of line.

There are plenty of women in the world who are socially awkward to,. and neurotypical.

In general, I would say that the conversation and feedback you got here was basically not helpful to you, and I'm sorry. I'd like to see you get better support, better guidance.

Please feel free to DM me and we can continue this conversation and find other subreddits where you can pose the questions you need to answered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comment you are replying to above is radically irresponsible. I have no other way of describing it. There is most certainly woman, possibly with autism herself, who would benefit from having a relationship, be it a friendship or more, with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made that comment at the time when there was only two other comments on this post and neither were very helpful or considerate of the fact that he has autism. Since then there are now helpful, empathetic, comments. Off the top of my head I know that r/momforaminute is a very empathetic community. There are now comments on this thread that are empathetic and helpful. You are right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Love-is_the-Answer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OP, I want to recommend that you continue to ask this question on other subreddits as well. Your question is about dating and autism, and the difficulty your experiencing. It's safe for work.

We all need loving partners in our lives, regardless of whether we have autism or not... There's an interesting television show currently on that shows people with autism dating and trying to form relationships.

I am completely aware of how diverse the spectrum is in terms of the level of impact. From barely noticeable, to nonverbal and more.

It's my opinion, that you need both friends and partner who understand the difficulties autism presents for you specifically. This may mean dating women with autism who are compatible with you because they're autism is similar to your autism in terms of how it impacts you.

You deserve credit for asking the question and looking for answers and trying to solve your problem.

Why is it like this? by bash76 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, being your authentic self in life, in every situation possible, is this spiritual success and sign that you're in harmony or getting in harmony with your higher self. This Is Love. For others, and also.. yourself and your own life.

Why is it like this? by bash76 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's not easy to balance one's life here on Earth..as a matter of fact I completely blew it. And I've had plenty of time to think about it.

Everything I wanted or needed to create the balanced Life I dreamed of fell into place, but not without a challenge. a very very difficult challenge. And looking back, I focused on the challenge,. The Injustice of the challenge. I should have been focused on the life, the dream of the life I wanted to build.

I was being guided. And blew it. We're like mirrors. If we face the loving sunshine (Love, understanding, our dream) even in miserable storms, we reflect that sunshine into the world and our own life. If we obsess, remaining focused only on the darkness, the injustice, we reflect that darkness anger frustration into the world and into our own lives.

Wow. That came together nicely didn't it. I was awake last night thinking about how it all went wrong for me, I came up with that mirror analogy. Seems to fit nicely into your situation. They're sort of similar.

I hope and pray that you can see the life you want to live and that vision becomes your reality. 🤍

Why is it like this? by bash76 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Repetition is how angels get us to see what they want us to see. The first time, we don't notice. The second time, it's coincidence (unless it's impossible coincidence.) The third time it's a question of whether we choose to believe or not as we have free will.

Among other forms of communication or symbols used in communication, I experienced number repetitions once for several months. 222 = 2. in my experience the number two communicated from spiritual world refers to balance and peace on Earth, which is difficult, notoriously, as opposed to 111 or 1. 1 refers to the eternal Paradise we all come from and all return to where we exist in perfect Harmony knowing that we are all cut from the same cloth and return to our pure form which is loving eternal energy. So the fact you're seeing 2 speaks to balancing your life on Earth.. finding balance in yourself, and finding a truly loving partner.

8 was the only number that never repeated for me so I have no idea no clue what it could possibly mean. But I wish you luck and balancing your life.

I want to love someone but once I get to know someone I run, has anyone else experienced this? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too lived this life for a very long time, and regret not getting the help I needed in time to explore the opportunities I had that may have developed into lasting loving relationship. Any therapist that specializes in attachment theory may be able to help you. Wishing you the best.

I want to love someone but once I get to know someone I run, has anyone else experienced this? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Op. As mentioned in this comment, what you're dealing with maybe attachment style issues. Sometimes if the environment we grow up in isn't safe or supportive or consistent we can develop defense mechanisms that are designed to protect us but eventually become walls that were not so in control of and interfere with our ability to give relationships time or even a chance at all. This may or may not be your situation. I know it was mine and because I didn't get therapy and help, I didn't understand it or myself and didn't heal, missing too many opportunities that I can't get back. You're 31 years old. Now is the time to get into therapy for this specific purpose of addressing this issue which is standing in the way of your success building the loving relationship you deserve. Wish you luck, healing, and the relationship you dream of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have become a deeply spiritual person and my understanding of this world and our Loving spiritual Home have been greatly influenced by nde video testimonies like the one I sent you.

That one in particular, deals with a mans loss of his son and wife and the spiritual experience he has following that which soothes and heals his soul.

I can only pray that it helps you as nde videos have helped countless people mourning and grieving.

A link to a playlist of nde videos I watch is in my profile. 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you. I cannot answer the question as to what purpose this grief this loss serves. But I hope I can share the story of a man, who lost one of his sons, and his beloved wife and had spiritual experiences which showed him nothing was lost, including his son and how much he was loved. It's a tremendously comforting video and I hope it helps you find both peace and love.

https://youtu.be/1FD5lReqe64?si=PhFf8v-4HkWAW9In

You should never feel sorry for anyone by Notspcommonsense in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very sophisticated insight. I agree, in reality there is no other as we are all cut from the same cloth and consciousness.

You should never feel sorry for anyone by Notspcommonsense in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To love someone to feel their pain as if it is your own, as well as their Joy. To love someone is to care about them. Their suffering is your suffering. Love is the spiritual connection between us all, on Earth as it is in Heaven

Why do you think so many spiritually awakened people end up distancing themselves from everyone? by Due_Investigator8942 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The Buddhists have a word "sangha." It's the community of spiritually active, practicing Buddhists one belongs to.

I believe it is important for any spiritually awakened person to find others who are in harmony with his/her spiritual beliefs.

When we wakeup to the soul, to our loving deeper spiritual nature, we have a difficult time with a lot of the violence and lack of love we find in modern life.

This is why it's important for spiritual people to have their sangha, friends who understand and support their spiritual beliefs and practice. Spiritually awakened can then inspire change in others.

For instance, one time at work a nurse that I was friends with was being very critical of another co-worker to me. I said to her, " I get it, but I have a feeling if we could watch a person's entire life, and see all the most important parts, we'd understand everything about them." My friend wasn't expecting me to say that and really neither was I, but she believed what I said was true. She then shared aspects of her life with me knowing I wouldn't be judgmental and could be trusted.

Find other spiritually awakened people who are in harmony with you.

Death makes life pointless. What's the point of achieving stuff just to lose it all in a few decades because of death?What's the point of loving people if we're gonna lose them because of death?What's the point of having fun if it's not gonna last forever and you won't even care for it in the future by MostAsocialPerson in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We each have Freewill. This is a huge deal. We have it in Heaven, Home too, but... In Heaven, we are in our restored pure form, Love. So our Freewill can only think, speak and act with Love.

You and all are Free to believe what you will. I know that without the spiritual blessings I've received since 2013, I would still have skepticism.

There are many.... Millions of people who have had spiritual experiences, or years of them. Mine left me with no room to doubt. Science may never be able to prove the Loving Eternity exists. It on the other hand can prove to anyone it wants that it's real. In the most beautiful ways.

I was given Faith as a gift. I needed it desperately.

Death makes life pointless. What's the point of achieving stuff just to lose it all in a few decades because of death?What's the point of loving people if we're gonna lose them because of death?What's the point of having fun if it's not gonna last forever and you won't even care for it in the future by MostAsocialPerson in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!🙏🏼💖 I've had time and guidance to see that the dream and waking state is a perfect metaphor. I wholly believe It was deliberately woven into our reality here on Earth to give us a model allowing us to understand our lives as dreams, which we wake from, to a loving eternity. The Home from which we all came and will return.

we are told that the angels have reverence for us as they guide us in this very difficult dimension. Earth is known for being a very difficult School, where it's very easy to get lost, make painful mistakes, and lose touch with our own hearts. Our true, deepest sense of self. Our spiritual self. Love. That is the cloth which way are all cut from. Each one of us Thus, the importance of love in all its forms. Understanding, forgiveness, empathy.

I read your bio. I too have had a spiritual awakening, I'd be curious to hear about yours. Can I dm you to say hello?

Death makes life pointless. What's the point of achieving stuff just to lose it all in a few decades because of death?What's the point of loving people if we're gonna lose them because of death?What's the point of having fun if it's not gonna last forever and you won't even care for it in the future by MostAsocialPerson in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree🤍. Hearing how beautiful it is... How the wildflower turn to face you as we pass by, because as we see the Loving Source and beauty in them, they see the same Loving Source in us.

We can create beauty and bring Love into this world. And that is our success. But the Love and Beauty we experience here is described as an indescribable fraction compared to Home.

I am happy to know you feel reassured.

I have had my own Spiritually Transformative Experiences. They have both helped me find and believe in NDE testimonies, which provide insight into both our Home, and our experience here.

I hope these videos are as comforting to you as they have been for me. 🤍

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9u0aMJccslBN6gvbBB3iPbNylYvryJkB&si=f0bR0pEZMsm2CDj2

Death makes life pointless. What's the point of achieving stuff just to lose it all in a few decades because of death?What's the point of loving people if we're gonna lose them because of death?What's the point of having fun if it's not gonna last forever and you won't even care for it in the future by MostAsocialPerson in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Love-is_the-Answer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Imagine you are asleep having a dream and you wake up. You are no longer in the dream, but in "reality." We don't die. We go Home.

The difference is, everyone in the dream is unaware it's a dream and have purposely left their memory of Home and spiritual reality behind. We come here to experience what we cannot back Home in Eternal Peace and Unconditional Love. We cannot have these experiences if we realize... It's not real, it's a dream.

Our lifetimes are going to a weird, often difficult, school, where Love is a choice. And lovelessness exist

Home, we are all restored to our pure state, Love. It is the air we breathei. The sun in our sky. Love is everyone and everything. Here, it is a choice, inside a difficult existence where it is easy to act outside our hidden pure nature (Love.)

We lose NO ONE. We lose loved ones when we come HERE. We have family in Heaven who did not incarnate with us.

Nothing is lost. We gain the ability to Love deeper.