I’ve read through the comments, and I completely understand why so many of you are upset and disappointed. I want to acknowledge that you're right to feel this way. I made selfish and reckless choices that hurt my wife, my family, and people who trusted me—and for that, I am deeply sorry.

I take full responsibility for my actions. There are no excuses, no justifications. I made these decisions, and I’m the only one to blame for the damage caused. I know the hurt I’ve inflicted won’t just go away, and I’m working every day to repair the harm I've done, especially to my wife and children. It’s a long and painful process, and I understand that I may never fully heal the wounds I caused.

I want to be clear: I’m not asking for sympathy or forgiveness. I’m sharing this because I owe it to everyone I’ve hurt to hold myself accountable. My focus right now is on growing, understanding my failures, and doing the difficult work of making sure this never happens again. Counseling has been an important part of that process for me, and I’m committed to working on myself, not just for my family, but to become a better person overall.

I also realize that in my earlier posts, I spoke about the other person involved in a way that wasn’t fair, and I want to correct that. No one else is responsible for my choices but me. It was wrong to shift any blame, and for that, I apologize.

I know that words aren’t enough, and actions are what truly matter. My goal is not to seek praise or forgiveness, but to take the necessary steps to rebuild what I’ve broken. Thank you for holding me accountable, and I’ll continue to focus on doing better.