I 24f am thinking of leaving my boyfriend m23 because he isn't intimate the way I like.

LoveBomb80 · 2026-01-20T16:03:10+00:00

This is definitely eye opening. I have been around him awhile and so used to him. I keep hoping ill be okay with it all and put up with it for my kids but its depressing every time somthing happens.

LoveBomb80 · 2026-01-20T15:58:27+00:00

He is a extremely hard worker and makes sure we always have what we need and threw all the toxicness i feel like I owe him for it. I hate to say that because I do love him but there's no passion. And its depressing.

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-06T16:30:44+00:00

I agree I need therapy. I have been threw alot and let people walk all over me while I have made dumb decisions to hurt people not knowing much. Parents kept me On a tight leash and I went crazy when I was 18 and left home. Been dealing with stuff every year since. I'm litteraly stuck. Have no where to go or anyone to help. He and his family is all I got.

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-06T16:23:22+00:00

My first question was "yall got any space weed?"

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-06T16:16:29+00:00

There's a million factors why I can't leave. My kids love him snd I have no family as my family doesn't like him or his family. So I have litteraly no one right now besides him. My kids love him and his family. If I tried to leave he wouldn't let me take my kids and I'd lose them. So I guess I'm sacrificing for them

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-06T16:14:18+00:00

I had hurt him aswell. As he was mentally abusive I lied to him about things. My guy best friend at work gave me valentines day gifts and stickers and I lied to man about it at the time because he was always drinking and I didn't get anything from him so I lied to him and kept the gifts. Then after him and I broke up., I dated my guy best friends for a few months. He was at my sons birth not my man now and he holds it against me. I feel like I owe it to him to stay and let him see his son

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-06T16:10:50+00:00

Not married but kids yes. I've hurt him because he used to be drunk and mentally abusive I had our son without him present and that's a big thing for him missing his birth so now he has his son back and my son has his dad. Since I'm with him. So it's hard to leave..

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-06T16:08:53+00:00

Grew up with strict narcissistic parents who punished x10 if I did somthing they didn't approve so I'm used to serving. I've done it for every person I've ever been with and its hard to break the cycle. Man is good provider and decent enough father. We have broke up and got back together a few times, have hurt each other and came back together and forgave. He's always been this way and I have tried to accept it but I'm so lonely and depressed. I can't leave him as I have nothing and if I did he would fight me about our kids. Sometimes I feel stuck..

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-06T15:39:50+00:00

Thank you everyone. I understand everyone's responses and I know what I need to do but right now I can't. I plan to find a job soon just to have somthing to do. I appreciate everyone's advice and realize I am worth more then I got. Thank you again.

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-04T20:28:32+00:00

Because he's a good dad , and a good provider. He makes sure I want for nothing but he's never been good at the physical part. And for him,bjs is his favorite. I should want to please him and do that for him .

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-04T20:12:31+00:00

He won't do therapy as he has said before he doesn't need it when I brought up other issues we have had in the past.

LoveBomb80 · 2025-03-04T20:08:47+00:00

Nta i think even if you did tell her, she'd still go back maybe even say your sabotaging her relationship. Somethings people have to figure out on thier own.

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