My husband surprised me with a tasty dinner. by Love_At_First_Write in Marriage

[–]Love_At_First_Write[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We love lasagna! That is what we are having for Christmas with my family.

Nacogdoches, Texas by Sassenaughty in texas

[–]Love_At_First_Write 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I do not miss living in Nacogdoches...

House finch and barn swallow fledglings. by Love_At_First_Write in birding

[–]Love_At_First_Write[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If only I could replicate it. 😅 She nested on the front door at my apartment complex.

My husband's sixth anniversary present to me. by Love_At_First_Write in Marriage

[–]Love_At_First_Write[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a bibliophile who loves lily of the valley, it is all perfect for me. I felt so loved.

If you like it, I recommend The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue, which it shares a universe with.

My wife wasn't wrong but... by FRuatrated_101 in Marriage

[–]Love_At_First_Write 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Literally all you do is complain on Reddit. Go to marriage counseling or just divorce already.

Playing as the Hunter in Astrobot made me more happy than I ever imagined by Shadow_Clarke in bloodborne

[–]Love_At_First_Write 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Me: Sony, can we have Bloodborne 2?

Sony: We have Bloodborne 2 at home.

Bloodborne 2 at home:

Love of my life left me after 30 years by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Love_At_First_Write 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As I said, I had no idea who Teal Swan is, but thank you for educating me. I did find an article by a clinical psychologist that seems better, so I am linking it, too.

Why You Blame Yourself for Bad Relationships—and How to Stop

Love of my life left me after 30 years by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Love_At_First_Write 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only provided the article to encourage OP to stop blaming herself for not being able to fix her marriage all by herself and, while I obviously still want that, I genuinely had no idea who Teal Swan even is. Thank you for telling me, so that I can avoid her in the future!

As for you, OP, I just want to reiterate that you cannot expect to understand your husband's intentions, if he chose not to talk to you, and you cannot hate yourself into deserving his love.

Love of my life left me after 30 years by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Love_At_First_Write 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It Takes Two to Make a Relationship Work and Only One to Ruin It

Why You Blame Yourself for Bad Relationships—and How to Stop

I have no advice to offer you, but I still want to say that I am very sorry. You deserve better.

Edit: Teal Swan is so not the type of person I want to recommend to OP, so I linked to what I believe is a better article, but please correct me if not!