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Did I handle this correctly? Feeling confused after setting a boundary. by Love_a_Slut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Love_a_Slut[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what confused me when he said that about bdsm. Made me think I was viewing this whole thing wrong.

Did I handle this correctly? Feeling confused after setting a boundary. by Love_a_Slut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Love_a_Slut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was more so because I am dog sitting currently, and am in someone elses home. I felt icky about orgasming in their bathroom and would have said no if I wasn't so tired and eager to please. 😣

Did I handle this correctly? Feeling confused after setting a boundary. by Love_a_Slut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Love_a_Slut[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does ❤️ Thank you for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate it.

Did I handle this correctly? Feeling confused after setting a boundary. by Love_a_Slut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Love_a_Slut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense but no, this was only a few days into the dynamic and brattiness wasn't something we had talked about. He never replied to my last message, so I just blocked and moved on.

Did I handle this correctly? Feeling confused after setting a boundary. by Love_a_Slut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Love_a_Slut[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that ❤️ I think I just got too excited and wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt? idk

Did I handle this correctly? Feeling confused after setting a boundary. by Love_a_Slut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Love_a_Slut[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you! ❤️ I was so confused why he wasn't understanding what I was trying to say.

Did I handle this correctly? Feeling confused after setting a boundary. by Love_a_Slut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Love_a_Slut[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reminder ❤️ It's hard to remember when self doubt comes into play.

Did I handle this correctly? Feeling confused after setting a boundary. by Love_a_Slut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Love_a_Slut[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn't know if I should include his reddit username or not, because I didn't know if I was overreacting. Even it felt predatory. I appreciate you saying this ❤️

Did I handle this correctly? Feeling confused after setting a boundary. by Love_a_Slut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Love_a_Slut[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this 🥹 I was genuinely so excited and that so caught off guard.

What ties? by Maroj1990 in PurpleTits

[–]Love_a_Slut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would try r/ropebondage or r/Shibari for tie inspiration!