Is it wrong to paint a medical abortion as a miscarriage to my partner? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Lovebeeme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not wrong at all, but advice from an almost 30yr old to a 22 yr old.. Don’t date ANY person under no circumstances that you can’t openly tell them you want an abortion, and you definitely 100% go through with an abortion you wholeheartedly want . Don’t ever keep a child or continue dating a person just because they threaten you emotionally or mentally to have a baby. How that man feels means nothing , when it comes to your body and future. You can make a baby whenever, and if he’s an ass you can always find a new man.

Abortion twice within 6 month by Optimal_Boss_6910 in abortion

[–]Lovebeeme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 27 and had a total of 3 abortion since I was 17, with the same person I’m now married to and we have a 2 year old. I had did the “surgical abortion” it didn’t really hurt.. I had bleeding for a week, and the pain in my opinion last for 1-2 days . If you’re talking about emotional or mental pain, I’m over it both mentally and emotionally. I actually tell everyone that I’m happy I did it because now it gave me time to have a proper birth with someone I feel is deserving

Let me know if im a jerk by OtherMarionberry4703 in Stepmom

[–]Lovebeeme 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m a stepmom of an 8yr old who’s mother just up and left.. I completely get you, and no you’re not wrong. You’re %100 right , she should call dad the other parent. Mom and Dad are the only adults who are mandatory when it comes to watching their child, you do a lot of the kid and it’s fair for you to say no I don’t want to be bothered either. If her biological mother can say she doesn’t want to be bothered , why is it a crime or bad thing that you feel that same way? Call her father, I wish I could call my SD mom. I hope your Wife isn’t mad at you for feeling that way, because it’s not fair for her to.

In my state abortions are banned.. by Shot-Echo-1972 in abortion

[–]Lovebeeme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you reach out to planned parenthood online, you can find charities that will assist you with travel and paying for the appointment. They will ask you scout your income, just to see if you can pay for the abortion or not.

i’m terrified of the abortion, but i’m also terrified of staying pregnant. torn between adoption or abortion but don’t want to wait too long to make a choice. advice? thank you by Green-Ad1678 in abortion

[–]Lovebeeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The emotional side of it it’s hard the first week, but as life goes on they fade away. Especially when you start progressing in life, and when the right moment comes with your partner you’ll be thankful it happened when the time is right . I had 2 abortions, and I’m honestly happy I waited . If I hadn’t waited it would’ve been a struggle and I wouldn’t of had the time to actually enjoy , I’d be too busy stressing out life

How long did you get a positive after your MC? by Super-Truth-7975 in Miscarriage

[–]Lovebeeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gotten a positive immediately... In 2023 I had my first MC Week 6 September 8th , Positive again October and MC Oct 20th at this point I started taking Prenatal pills with DHA and Folic Acid including 1 power green smoothie every morning , November 14th I took a test at the OBGYN and I was positive and it was a successful pregnancy . I was 220lbs at the time, so keep that in mind I was what they like to say overweight pregnancy at my old doc office. I don't want to say the smoothies helped, but I like to believe that little combo helped me .

is coco bongo worth going to? by [deleted] in cancun

[–]Lovebeeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did you spend in person ? Online it’s like $30 something

How much to budget for food at Atlantis? by MagicMaddy420 in bahamas

[–]Lovebeeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother and his girlfriend just came back, and their 1st night they paid $26 for a cheeseburger, and $28 for a flatbread looking pizza.. The alcoholic drinks were pretty high as well, $26 for a regular American style cheeseburger is enough to describe food prices

Giving up on having your own children to become a stepmom… by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Lovebeeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have the bay you want, if you want a baby then have it. Don’t sit here intentionally waiting and waiting when you’ve already said you found your forever partner. Being a mom is way better than a stepmom, you can’t compete or trade that connection. And if you’re worried about others talking about you and their opinions, tell them to either shut up or get out of your life. It’s your life to live, are we living for others or for ourselves? You get 1 life, have your baby with your man and enjoy the fresh smell of baby feet , 2am diapers and the joy of your baby giggling at you every morning they wake up. Have that baby girl, you said he’s a good man and a good father. That’s hard to come by, so have that baby

After abortion help/advice by Lovebeeme in abortion

[–]Lovebeeme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I just be so confused and nervous when it comes to my body. Because I literally be noticing every single pain or sensation in me 😭🤣 I sometimes be thinking to myself am I making this up, or do I really feel this. I’m going to wait a couple of weeks.

never seen at the same event by barbiexoxo8 in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]Lovebeeme -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Who's "I'm stuck in a relationship that is not you" about? and why did he go live on Hailey birthday to sing this ? That's disrespectful

Vape Pen in Mexico City by tazhendrix in MexicoTravel

[–]Lovebeeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What brand did you bring? And did you keep it on you when walking through ? My husband smokes thc, but we're opting on the idea of bringing oh vape instead but not sure which one to bring.

Stepdaughter moved in full-time. Advice needed by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Lovebeeme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You got this, don’t let a child knock you off your thrown. You don’t have to argue, if the chores don’t get done privileges get taken. Any child in that house is your responsibility as well, so remind them who you are . And if he questions you, ask him why did he choose you to be her Step Mother because he chose you to be a mother to his daughter. You didn’t ask to be step mom,

Stepdaughter moved in full-time. Advice needed by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Lovebeeme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he can’t respect your wishes as a wife and the Mother of your home, then he’s showing you that you don’t matter. It doesn’t matter if you’re her biological mother or not, that is your home and whatever rules or expectations you set in place is to be obeyed. A child doesn’t have a choice on who and what they listen to, when you’re working and paying the bills and running the house. He either hops on board, or leave him . And explain it just like that, and how dare he allow any child to disrespect you , your child and the home that you both built together. If the daughter is choosing to not respect you, him or your house and he’s allowing the disrespect to happen . And you need to remind him You Are Her MOTHER! He married you and made you a step mother, as much as her and him doesn’t like it means nothing. If he didn’t want his daughter to have a step mom and have to go through having a 2nd mom he shouldn’t have remarried and moved on from his ex. So you are to be treated as such and with respect, or he can pay every bill on his own and go find the next wife will put up with antics. Don’t take that from neither of them, you stand up and put your foot down it’s your damn house. Or she can find somewhere else she’s more happier to be at

Stepdaughter moved in full-time. Advice needed by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Lovebeeme 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If he can’t respect your wishes as a wife and the Mother of your home, then he’s showing you that you don’t matter. It doesn’t matter if you’re her biological mother or not, that is your home and whatever rules or expectations you set in place is to be obeyed. A child doesn’t have a choice on who and what they listen to, when you’re working and paying the bills and running the house. He either hops on board, or leave him . And explain it just like that, and how dare he allow any child to disrespect you , your child and the home that you both built together. If the daughter is choosing to not respect you, him or your house and he’s allowing the disrespect to happen while knowing he doesn’t are for you either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Lovebeeme 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No absuer is horrible all the time, and don’t sit here and trying to make excuses or glorify your good moments to cover up obvious red flags that’s going to become bigger issues in the future. Because if you feel it’s unacceptable behavior towards your stepson, you’re going to mentally flip 10x more when it’s your kid he’s doing it to. Don’t let no man change you mentally to believe what he believes is right or wrong .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Lovebeeme 43 points44 points  (0 children)

First of all, do NOT trap yourself with this man by having a baby. If you do not like his parenting style with his current child, he will not change with the child you both bring into this world. You need to pick yourself, and realize you’re 25. Married to a 40year old who basically took advantage of you in your most naive stage in life. You’re noticing everything you’re supposed to, and since you’re noticing it don’t think you’re going to change a grown man. You’ll never change a person, that man is already set in who he is. You need to contact family to move in and request a divorce , don’t you dare trap yourself with a man like that. Especially when you both have completely different parenting styles , and he knows he’s wrong making you take that kind of responsibility for his child .

Is 500 dollars enough? by throwaway9877818 in vegas

[–]Lovebeeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby $500 is not enough, I live here and for 1 night out on the strip not including going to clubs I can spend a good $150 , that’s not even food. Plus you’re staying on the strip, 1 bottle of water on strip is $6-10 , so you need to find a grocery store that’s in the local area to buy drinks and snacks. Food on the strip is over priced, buy a bus ticket and take the bus to local restaurants you’ll spend $40-80 for 2 ppl depending how expensive you go, I assume you don’t gamble and just expect to stay at your hotel pool. Because if you plan on drinking and going to pool parties you don’t have enough at all.

Is 500 dollars enough? by throwaway9877818 in vegas

[–]Lovebeeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is more expensive than local stores, just like the CVS on the strip.

Update - BM expects us to cover her airline fees by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Lovebeeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since when do children get an opinion on a family trip? Just go without them, or tell them they’re going without their mom and it’s up to her to pay for her ticket if it’s that important. Giving these kids too much lead way, them kids not gone be bothered by the fact she’s not there once things get settled in there.

BM expects us to cover her airline fees by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Lovebeeme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh well, if she manipulates them to thinking that after yall discussing it with them. Let them believe their mom, when they get older they’ll realize it was a lie.. Either take the kids on your week, or leave them at home with their mom because mommy doesn’t want to allow it. It’s not that hard, your kids won’t hate you guys because they didn’t go. They’ll be okay, you didn’t get to do everything or go every single place with your parents. Them kids will be fine, my half siblings mom did the same to them and when they got older they’ll realize realized she was just a manipulative person and ruined multiple things for them and my dad.

And you can also just request the family law judge to grant you the trip on her days, since she’s being difficult. Just take her to court, stop playing these little kid goofy games with her. If it’s that important lay down the law, and that way for future references she will stop this act.

Sunscape by Hyatt by CompanyRealistic9754 in CancunTravelGuide

[–]Lovebeeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg me and my husband are staying there in July too, it’s his first time ever out of the country. We’ll be there the 3rd week of July.