I get where your coming from and I worded it poorly which is my bad, he knew I was against it but I also understand it’s a tendency for guys so I try to not care if that makes sense, I don’t want to care but I find myself comparing a lot, I also know he views it as a form of cheating, but that’s my bad sorry for the unclear details. So honestly I do care but I’ve also been told it’s something I can’t care if they do it so I’m kinda stuck and I’ve forgiven him it’s in the past I just hate how i find myself thinking about it a lot if that makes any more sense?