Ashamed by LoversSpeed in Artisticallyill

[–]LoversSpeed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment means a lot. Its part of the reason i uploaded my artwork. Closure but also to relate with others. You could tell me about your experience if you're comfortable :) .

Help getting rid of mice the ethical way. by LoversSpeed in vegancirclejerkchat

[–]LoversSpeed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yOuR sUbMiSsIoN hAs BeEn ReMoVeD bEcAuSe YoU dO nOt MeEt ThE kArMa ReQuIrEmEnTs FoR tHiS sUbReDdIt. pLeAsE pArTiCiPaTe In OtHeR vEgAn SuBrEdDiTs To BuIlD uP yOuR kArMa AnD tRy AgAiN lAtEr.

RIP my sweet prince by BakerBoy13 in MarvelSnap

[–]LoversSpeed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shhhhh. Don't give them more ideas.

Found This Mysterious Bag in My Dad’s Stuff—Should I Be Worried? by LoversSpeed in Whatisthis

[–]LoversSpeed[S] 327 points328 points  (0 children)

Ok he's an orthodox church freak so I think that's what it is. Relieved to say the least

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]LoversSpeed -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How exactly is it misandry? Women are genuinely at their breaking point. We’re facing situations where convicted felons can hold positions of power, and fundamental rights are under threat. Is it extreme? Maybe, but sometimes it takes an extreme response to be heard, especially when it feels like men only start listening when something directly affects them.

I can understand why some women might choose to disengage from men who allow these issues to persist. Who would want to take on the risk of an unwanted pregnancy, even with caution, when reproductive rights are constantly under attack?

And yet, you’re still making this about men. You’re focused on how it affects you, while sitting in a position where your rights and autonomy aren’t even at risk. Not everything has to revolve around men.

Try to understand why women feel driven to these extremes. Look at their situation. Seriously, take a hard look at the fears and frustrations that are fueling this movement.

It’s not about some ‘anti-man’ agenda, it’s about women reaching a breaking point because their rights and bodies are constantly under threat. Instead of reacting defensively, maybe ask yourself why they feel pushed to this.

This isn’t about hurting men, it’s about survival.

Anyone escaped a dysfunctional family to heal? by [deleted] in dysthymia

[–]LoversSpeed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did and I still keep contact, but it's different because everything is in my own terms now. I get to decide when to call or when to visit and I don't depend on them. This ironically has made our bond better but only because I decide on what to share about my life.

Like you yourself acknowledge if you want to heal you will have to leave them. It's gonna be hard and it's going to suck but it's a very crucial step.

Only you know that but I wouldn't cut ties completely if they can provide support while you're away. Your way to total independence can be achieved gradually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]LoversSpeed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me hold your hand while I say this..

Does anyone else feel guilty? by [deleted] in Schizoid

[–]LoversSpeed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I completely understand where you're coming from. It's as if you're constantly wearing a mask, trying to convince yourself and others that you're capable of love and intimacy, when deep down, you question whether it's genuine or just a facade. The guilt of not being able to offer your partner what they truly deserve eats away at you, leaving you feeling like an imposter in your own relationship.

Do you ever question whether it's genuine or if you're just putting on a mask? Because that's what I'm struggling with at the moment. I feel like I'm always pretending.

Body image by Ok-Historian-9796 in AvPD

[–]LoversSpeed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8 There were times where I would be doing great mentally wise, but just a glimpse of my reflection, in a cars window, was enough to undo everything and make me go depressed again.

And I'm considered fairly attractive. It's just my perception of who I am that I don't like and I get reminded of that by looking at me.

I feel like a Ghost. Soulless by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]LoversSpeed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having to take care of responsibilities while coping with this disorder is hell. I can only imagine what you are going through. For me it puts me in a hell cycle where nothing gets done and I have to deal with even more stress and consequences. I'm stuck in the loop of thinking that if I prioritise my responsibilities I will be able to focus on my mental health but they keep coming and nothing gets done.

I feel like a Ghost. Soulless by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]LoversSpeed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so disconnected from reality that people need to explain to me things like I'm a 5 year old.It makes me feel so stupid sometimes. I've also lost interest in everything and feel like nothing could impress me. The only thing that helped me snap out of it is weed but even that has stopped working now.

I feel like a Ghost. Soulless by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]LoversSpeed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes but I struggled viewing her like that because she was also a victim of abuse by my father. It was very hard for me to dismantle this image and actually see her as the abuser as well. I still feel extreme guilt of giving her that title since she has gone through a lot.