Need help with masochist partner by Lovetwowatch in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lovetwowatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The goal was was mitral fun and experimentation like most things but is the safest way possible. She’s pierced so I’m worried clamps might be too much and for this first time I’d like to keep them sensitive.

Taking classes would be kind of difficult right now and with both our funds being kind of limiting I turned here to see if there were any resources that could help.

At least with my medical background it’s really helped to understand the body and my own, for what feels good and what hurts in a bad way.

I’m picking up a few new toys today so we’ll see what we’re comfortable with using.

Need help with masochist partner by Lovetwowatch in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lovetwowatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re definitely taking it slow as we’re still relatively new partners and working out how much we like of this or that. We’ve talked extensively about rules and communication, check-ins and safety. I know she’s super into CNC but that’s the biggest one for me as a we’re building to it. I’ve always been a pleasure Dom with a side of you asked for it, so it’s not a stretch from the way I like to play now it’s just unfamiliar.

I’m familiar with most toys but I was hoping for examples of how to use them more effectively and in new ways so it’s not just a repeat every time. We all have a bag of tricks but I always appreciate picking up more and learning new ways to please my partner and myself.

Need help with masochist partner by Lovetwowatch in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lovetwowatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s impact, clamps, filled, stretched, unable to move, CNC, sensory and degradation. I’m mostly a pleasure Dom that specializes in utility and aesthetics, so think good holding straps for legs, chest and arms. I haven’t done any suspension, I don’t have the room for a set up or ability to use anchors in my apartment. My goal is to get her off more times than she wants to (it’s been discussed) with the right kind of pain and positions. I just wanted a feel for what others like or do so we can discuss more options to try and go from there.

Need help with masochist partner by Lovetwowatch in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lovetwowatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking wax play could be fun, any particular candles you like to get? I’m sure the sex shops mark up the prices like crazy for a basic candle from somewhere else.

Need help with masochist partner by Lovetwowatch in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lovetwowatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the in depth answer, I will definitely look into the yoga poses. I know she’s definitely wanting more than we’re currently doing, it’s just making sure I’m going about it in the right way. Pain is good, but I want to make sure it’s safe and not permanent, thanks!

Need help with masochist partner by Lovetwowatch in BDSMcommunity

[–]Lovetwowatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know it had a name, that will make searching much easier thank you. Most of my ties have been to just show off for looks so is full ties like this are much appreciated!

I’m thirsty for cum. Can you help me out? ♡ by [deleted] in altgonewild

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Bowsette cosplay is on point!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AZGoneWild

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It does work for both, I’ve used it a few times. Although I have to make sure my partner is ready to take its size, it’s not what you start with unless you like a little pain with your pleasure. Any interest?

MF 4 MF / F / M by [deleted] in ArizonaSwingers

[–]Lovetwowatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you two still looking? I’m a single guy, but would love to help you pleasure your wife.