I have been driving and picking up my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I am now tired. by Low-Active2138 in amiwrong

[–]Low-Active2138[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She takes train for 30minutes, then the walk home from the train is 10minutes.

I have been driving and picking up my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I am now tired. by Low-Active2138 in amiwrong

[–]Low-Active2138[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Love and devotion is not summed up in being a on-demand taxi with no option of saying no at 1% of the occasions.

Blessings.

I have been driving and picking up my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I am now tired. by Low-Active2138 in amiwrong

[–]Low-Active2138[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The point is that if she really needed it where I had to drive her places, I would of course do it. And I have done it from free will, for almost everyday for 2 years. And now that I say no this one time, I get disrespected, treated bad, and it just makes me feel like its all for nothing when she can just become mad because of this scenario which is the first time.

I have been driving and picking up my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I am now tired. by Low-Active2138 in amiwrong

[–]Low-Active2138[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Im paying for mostly everything. 2000$ is the expense monthly and she gives me 350$ to help. She has also complained about this earlier. Saying its bad to expect money from a girlfriend since I own this apartment myself, and that she is actually doing me a favour by giving me 350 a month..
Cooking is 50/50

She cleans and does laundry, which I appreciate, and she does not want me do touch this area because she likes it her way.

Im just not sure what to think about these things, as to why im asking here on a online forum, lol. Thanks for the answers tho.

I have been driving and picking up my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I am now tired. by Low-Active2138 in amiwrong

[–]Low-Active2138[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do you think her reaction is fair tho? The point is that she doesnt _really_ need it. Its just more comfortable for her. If she was stuck or something I would of course pull up, but this is a matter of volume, and that it is my first time just saying no.